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Topic: when is it time to let go?
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Fri 04/03/09 06:47 AM
me and my ex/sumtime girlfriend constantly fight then get back 2gether. i love her but when is the point when you realize its never gonna get any better? like she fights about things that happened a year ago, and she wants me to change so much about me; my friends,my hobbies,and just my general personality. now normally if a girl did this i would be gone. i mean not to be concieded but im a good looking guy and great personality and never had any problems with girls so its not like im desperate. but why do i find it so hard to let go? any advice for me?

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Fri 04/03/09 06:48 AM
let go!

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:48 AM
It may be best to just end it & move on, it could get worse if you let it continue.

Gossipmpm's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:50 AM
Run forest run !!!

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Fri 04/03/09 06:51 AM
yea i think so and all my friends tell me the same but i just cant seem to do it. damn!! only a girl could bother you this bad lol

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Fri 04/03/09 06:54 AM
it is probably because you are in love with her...hate to say it but that is what it sounds like to me

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Fri 04/03/09 06:56 AM
So why hide. Post your pictures

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Fri 04/03/09 06:56 AM
Edited by dawnyhi on Fri 04/03/09 07:02 AM


start with a new hobby goals and find out who you are and learn to love yourself...

try not to start a new relationship until you are completely at a stage where you are glad they are alive but nothing they do affects you...apathy...

good luck

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Fri 04/03/09 06:59 AM
No one should have to change for someone else. Thats not love.

longislandangel's photo
Fri 04/03/09 06:59 AM
True love accepts you the way you are! You cannot change others you can only change yourself. Did she fall in love with you or a picture of who she wants you to be?

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Fri 04/03/09 07:00 AM
Why do you love her?

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Fri 04/03/09 07:01 AM
I didn't see where he stated he loves her...Me thinks he love the "warm place to put it"

Why do you love her?

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Fri 04/03/09 07:02 AM
thanks for the advice. and i aint hiding i just joined the other day and i didnt post a pic yet and wasnt sure if i should

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Fri 04/03/09 07:03 AM

thanks for the advice. and i aint hiding i just joined the other day and i didnt post a pic yet and wasnt sure if i should


go for it we need more man meat to look at

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Fri 04/03/09 07:04 AM
i love her but when

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Fri 04/03/09 07:05 AM
and if you read my first post i did state that i love her. and it has nothing to do with 'a warm place to put it'. but when we met she loved who i was and now she wants it totally dif, and im not sure with my life that a could change and be happy

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Fri 04/03/09 07:05 AM
oops ohwell


i love her but when


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Fri 04/03/09 07:09 AM

oops ohwell


i love her but when




Ahhh I've a memory like a steel trap, ddn...

OP, have you thought that maybe you love her, but the her she was when you first met? Not the current "her"?

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Fri 04/03/09 07:11 AM
yep and I stepped right in.....

in my experience....people don't change...they just reveal....



oops ohwell


i love her but when




Ahhh I've a memory like a steel trap, ddn...

OP, have you thought that maybe you love her, but the her she was when you first met? Not the current "her"?

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Fri 04/03/09 07:11 AM
yea your probably rite. you are wise, lol. ijust need to sit down and make a decision, thanx 4 the help:smile:

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