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| Topic: when is it time to let go? | |
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yea your probably rite. you are wise, lol. ijust need to sit down and make a decision, thanx 4 the help  No one can be objective about their own situation. We've all done what you are doing. I'd seriously consider a list, a pro and con thing. You'll be shocked. Good luck to you. 
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I let go when doubt sets in and happy feelings start to be replaced by negative ones.
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You are past the point of not return.
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and if you read my first post i did state that i love her. and it has nothing to do with 'a warm place to put it'. but when we met she loved who i was and now she wants it totally dif, and im not sure with my life that a could change and be happy Sometimes people change, either she realizes something else she wants from a guy (she changed) or you have changed and may not realize it! My bf-ish and I are on a break for that reason, as time passes I want more time, attention, and a more serious relationship, and he wants to continue to party like he used to! We love each other but as I am growing in the relationship he is not and its hard to figure out! Good Luck! |
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yea i mean when we met i was always out everynite, and i really changed for her, i mean no other girls, i never go out without her, i do and buy absolutely anything to make her happy. but itds just never enuff. i think we just became dif ppl and its hard.
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If you change yourself for another person, you lose who you are as a person. If you do that, you lose both yourself and the love of the other person. They loved you for who you were, not who you changed into. If you give someone what they say that want and that involves change, you never give them what they need, and you don't get what you need either. Which is to be YOU, and not the changed you.
Compromise excluded. |
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yea i mean when we met i was always out everynite, and i really changed for her, i mean no other girls, i never go out without her, i do and buy absolutely anything to make her happy. but itds just never enuff. i think we just became dif ppl and its hard. well I would do anything for Justin to spend every weekend with me. So if thats not enough and ur unhappy u probably should let it go! but try to talk it out with her first |
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its funny how i never thought i would be willing to change this much, now here i am and its never enuff for her. i dont miss the going out. but she never wants tohang with my friends or me to speak to them, and she hates when i leave the house without her becuz she doesnt want ppl 2 b around me.. hahaa as i sit her and describe her, im asking myself how it got this far.
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its funny how i never thought i would be willing to change this much, now here i am and its never enuff for her. i dont miss the going out. but she never wants tohang with my friends or me to speak to them, and she hates when i leave the house without her becuz she doesnt want ppl 2 b around me.. hahaa as i sit her and describe her, im asking myself how it got this far. You gave her what you thought she wanted. She wanted the YOU that she met.... and once you gave up and changed, she lost respect for you. She also saw you'd change for her, and now she expects it because you did it before. It will never EVER be enough. The thing is, sher eally didn't want you to change in the first place. I'm not saying she did all this intentionally, but now you two are where you are. And it's over. |
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im not sure she wantd the me that she met,, my friends think she liked what i look like and what i could offer and doesnt like who i really am so tried to make me who she wanted.
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I completeyly agree w/seakolony. Dude, this will mess you up if you stay in this! If she wants you to change, she's being selfish, or she may have even fallen in love w/her IDEA of who you are instead of reality, and is basically asking you to be that idea. She may not even know this herself...
Smile, hug, walk away no matter what. Be a good guy about it :) |
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