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Topic: Red flags
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Sun 04/05/09 05:26 AM
Edited by cntrygrl4 on Sun 04/05/09 05:28 AM
My first indication of a red flagger is when the guy keeps pushing to contact me on yahoo, wanting my phone number right away or wanting to arrange to meet me. Sets off all of the alarm bells in my head. I will only do those things in my good time and NOT before. If he doesn't like it, tough.grumble

Some of these guys need to buy a clue or at least rent one.laugh

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Sun 04/05/09 05:39 AM

If you had a bad experiance dating or in relationships do you know what to look for in a new one and if so what are your red flags that you know the person is not worth you time...??


they have to be nice!

i'd look for someone who was willing to go out and take it from there!

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Sun 04/05/09 06:08 AM


Women don't need grand gestures or big promises. If you plan to do something, just do it. Not following up on your word is a huge red flag in my book. Once in awhile is not a big deal because we all have things that come up, but showing a pattern of all talk and no action on any level, is a deal breaker for me.


I've known many women suckered into relationships with guys only to feel the big let down when they don't back them up with actions.

In fact right now one of my good friends is finally seeing the light. The guy is good looking, has alot going for him, everything planned out except for his trophy wife. He promised her everything he thought she wanted to hear to get into her life.

The guy is actually a big baby, get past the looks and possesions and he has no real personality. She thought she found something really great and so did I. Now he's mentally unstable and can't handle being with her and her individuality.

So sad


Awwwwwwww. That's the kicker right there too......"He promised her everything he thought she wanted to hear to get into her life".

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Sun 04/05/09 03:32 PM
Insanity! frustrated

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Sun 04/05/09 04:48 PM

If you had a bad experiance dating or in relationships do you know what to look for in a new one and if so what are your red flags that you know the person is not worth you time...??


When they describe what their ex did to them recently. Red flag, neon illumination.

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