Topic: x drama
MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/07/09 01:18 PM

i have a friend who's a drama magnet. there are times when i just can't deal with all of her crap and i have to take a break.

it's very tiring.


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MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/07/09 01:26 PM

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Tue 04/07/09 01:39 PM
My SO's ex is ALWAYS causing drama, yup, I put up with it. Why? It's very simple, I love him and he's worth it. flowerforyou

misstina2's photo
Tue 04/07/09 01:42 PM

My SO's ex is ALWAYS causing drama, yup, I put up with it. Why? It's very simple, I love him and he's worth it. flowerforyou
flowerforyou thats very kind of youflowerforyou

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Tue 04/07/09 01:51 PM
Actually, I don't look at it as kind, I see it as just something you do for someone you love, you support them, they support you. If you don't, it's probably not really love.

misstina2's photo
Tue 04/07/09 01:55 PM
Edited by misstina2 on Tue 04/07/09 02:07 PM

Actually, I don't look at it as kind, I see it as just something you do for someone you love, you support them, they support you. If you don't, it's probably not really love.
flowerforyou I agree if you love someone nothing will stop you from wanting to be with that personflowerforyou

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/07/09 02:06 PM
Nah and i would make that very clear to him if I had to.

74Drew's photo
Tue 04/07/09 02:08 PM

flowerforyou I agree if you love someone nothing will stop yu from wanting to be with that personflowerforyou

offtopic i have to say that i hate feeling this way sometimes. in the past it has distracted me from realizing how not right for me the person really was.

but i understand what it is you're saying.


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misstina2's photo
Tue 04/07/09 02:11 PM
flowerforyou I think there's a way to avoid the person causing the dramaflowerforyou sometimes you to to wait until that person does enough to get the cops involvedflowerforyou

7z3r05's photo
Tue 04/07/09 02:18 PM
We're talkin unmistakable lucidity that involves threats of physical violence and bodily harm.

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/07/09 02:57 PM

My SO's ex is ALWAYS causing drama, yup, I put up with it. Why? It's very simple, I love him and he's worth it. flowerforyou
flowerforyou That's sweetflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/07/09 03:05 PM


My SO's ex is ALWAYS causing drama, yup, I put up with it. Why? It's very simple, I love him and he's worth it. flowerforyou
flowerforyou thats very kind of youflowerforyou
bigsmile yes it isbigsmile

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/07/09 03:10 PM

Actually, I don't look at it as kind, I see it as just something you do for someone you love, you support them, they support you. If you don't, it's probably not really love.
bigsmile I think you are rightflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/07/09 07:35 PM


Actually, I don't look at it as kind, I see it as just something you do for someone you love, you support them, they support you. If you don't, it's probably not really love.
flowerforyou I agree if you love someone nothing will stop you from wanting to be with that personflowerforyou
bigsmile You are probably rightflowerforyou

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 04/08/09 08:15 AM

flowerforyou Could you put up with your SO's X causing you issues?flowerforyou

Nope nip that in the bud really quick. I have dated men that had children and the ex would use that as an excuse to try to start drama, I have very very clear cut boundaries on this. I am not part of your past nor will I participate in the drama that has evolved from it.

feistybaby's photo
Wed 04/08/09 08:26 AM
I have to disagree here with most of what I see. If you are in a committed relationship with someone, especially someone with children, there is very little way to avoid drama at times. No matter how your s/o handles it if you are a part of their lives then the drama and how it affects the children concerns you as well, or it should. I agree that it should be handled as quickly as possible and should be addressed by your s/o but I think it is virtually impossible to stay entirely clear of it.

misstina2's photo
Wed 04/08/09 08:30 AM

I have to disagree here with most of what I see. If you are in a committed relationship with someone, especially someone with children, there is very little way to avoid drama at times. No matter how your s/o handles it if you are a part of their lives then the drama and how it affects the children concerns you as well, or it should. I agree that it should be handled as quickly as possible and should be addressed by your s/o but I think it is virtually impossible to stay entirely clear of it.
flowerforyou I would discuss the situation with my SO and see how we could deal with itflowerforyou

nikita5's photo
Wed 04/08/09 08:34 AM
I married a man with 3 kids by two different woman-those woman caused drama almost every day.I could deal with them,I just couldn't deal with him!

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 04/08/09 07:11 PM


flowerforyou Could you put up with your SO's X causing you issues?flowerforyou

Nope nip that in the bud really quick. I have dated men that had children and the ex would use that as an excuse to try to start drama, I have very very clear cut boundaries on this. I am not part of your past nor will I participate in the drama that has evolved from it.
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Wed 04/08/09 07:17 PM

flowerforyou Could you put up with your SO's X causing you issues?flowerforyou


Guess not since I don't have one ohwell