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Topic: Why cheaters.......
imsingle951's photo
Wed 04/08/09 05:23 PM

I think it's sad that it seems to be acceptable these days ( by some) I'm old school & I believe it's the worst thing you can do to someone in a relationship.
Ditto

imsingle951's photo
Wed 04/08/09 05:24 PM

Does it really matter what their excuse is? An excuse is an excuse and there is never a good one for cheating.
Right on

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Wed 04/08/09 05:26 PM

Cheat ?

Some people cheat because they aren’t getting their needs met inside their relationships. They are under the deluded notion that going outside their relationships is a legitimate answer.


What else you think could be a reason ?


It's because they're incredibly selfish people who have no concern for anyone's feelings other than their own. To the cheater, people of the opposite sex are nothing but commodities to be exploited for their own benefit and discarded with it becomes advantageous for them to do so.

Cheaters are also often the ones who go about crying "Imma poor victim!!!" when they're caught, which is about as low-rent as you can get.

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Wed 04/08/09 05:31 PM

Cheating is just being a coward!! Whether you are man or a woman....it is wrong!!

This is why I am single today and probably will stay that way bc these days everyone seems to accept it.

I know what you mean me too:cry: Staying single that is:cry:

SitkaRains's photo
Wed 04/08/09 05:55 PM
I think it is easier for some to cheat than deal with real life... I also have seen this scenario many many times gender doens't apply here. People jump into a relationship without really knowing that person. The honeymoon period wears off and reality bites them in the butt. So it is easy to keep going from high to high I.E. a new person..They can't or won't grasp the work it takes to build a relationship..They become so harden that they really can't have empathy for another person.

A cheater is a coward and chooses the easy way out of a relationship not caring about the ripple effect it has.

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Wed 04/08/09 06:12 PM

I think it is easier for some to cheat than deal with real life... I also have seen this scenario many many times gender doens't apply here. People jump into a relationship without really knowing that person. The honeymoon period wears off and reality bites them in the butt. So it is easy to keep going from high to high I.E. a new person..They can't or won't grasp the work it takes to build a relationship..They become so harden that they really can't have empathy for another person.

A cheater is a coward and chooses the easy way out of a relationship not caring about the ripple effect it has.

:thumbsup:

iamgeorgiagirl's photo
Wed 04/08/09 06:31 PM
Cheaters usually live an untrustworthy life all the way around. Dishonesty is prevelant in all aspects of their lives. If someone cheats and lies who knows what else they would do? Cheaters, liars, thieves, they're all the same to me. People to be avoided for sure in my book. Most cheaters I know have remained cheaters.

ohwell



nikita5's photo
Wed 04/08/09 07:09 PM
I think they do it because they are selfish.They don't care about anyone's feelings but their own.

rara777's photo
Thu 04/09/09 05:20 AM

I think they do it because they are selfish.They don't care about anyone's feelings but their own.


Well said.:thumbsup:

DragonFlyTat's photo
Thu 04/09/09 05:25 AM
Cheaters need to make up their minds and leave already. If they have already crossed that line then finish it by ending it. Don't cheat the other person out of a life they could be having with someone who loves them and doesn't sneak around.

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Thu 04/09/09 06:24 AM

Cheaters need to make up their minds and leave already. If they have already crossed that line then finish it by ending it. Don't cheat the other person out of a life they could be having with someone who loves them and doesn't sneak around.


BRAVA! Well said!!!!

Mr_Music's photo
Thu 04/09/09 06:27 AM
My grandma (God rest her) used to cheat at checkers. Man, you had to watch her like a hawk!

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