well spoken advice here.

for my part I realy dont like to even mention the S word. I would like to start out with a good solid friendship that can grow into the volcano of lust and love I want to share with a partner in life.

mostly I dont talk about it strate off becouse I dont find sex to be the cornerstone to a relationship..... hmm, ok yeah it is. just not the first one put down. even tho sexual preferances and fetishes can sour a relationship when on uneven ground faster than finding out they are not as single as they first said they were.

[\quote) i will cancel my plans for the weekend trip. i am in no way going with that kind of misunderstanding



Still hold a little faith and hope, for if he is really
concerned about you and the situation he will try
to make it right, because he found he cares that much
about you...

If he dones not contact you or brushes you off, you then know you did what was right for you and did it before you got your heart broken...

..perhaps you just found a guy who wants to respect the relationship and not be so quick to talk about this just yet...and maybe he is trying to show you some respect also..i know this may seem a bit old fashion but not all guys are horn dogs... ...

some of us are cultured horn dogs.

we know not to through you on the table of the local resuraunt and make love to you. we take you out of town and do it there.

but yeah I agree with ya. some of us actualy do mean friendship first and sex later.