Hello everyone, I am interested in someone on this site and we been sending message when we can, but we have not really got a chance to talk when we are online at the same time. When is it a good time to meet up with each other in public and exchange phone numbers, if come to this. This is my first time on an online dating site and I am nervous. I would like some advice from the pros. Does anyone have any success story about this site or any site.

When you decide to meet face to face, meet in a public place, drive yourself, let someone close to you know where you are goin and who you are meetin. Have them call you on your cell phone to check in with you to make sure you are all right. And least but not least relax and enjoy yourself and don't be disappointed if it doesn't work out.

Hi shygirl,
Just meet whenever you feel comfortable.
Good luck here....and If I had a success story I wouldn't be here to tell it :)
Have fun!

just relax, take a deep breath and breathe! Meet in a public place and if things click exchange numbers. An do let someone know where you are going and what your plans are just in case hun. It never hurts to be safe.

I met someone off here, but there was no chemistry between us two, and my best friend knew where I was and what time I was leaving coming home.

Good Luck I hope there is lots fireworks for you both

Uh..I am no pro..but I would say when it is comfortable for you.
Good luck to ya

Thank you for your advice and I will use it, but not now. The guy I though I would want to meet is so full of his self. He have not said anything to me out the way, but his profile on another dating site told me enought. He sound like he is controlling. He did not put much in his profile on this website, but the other one, well I just say he is not someone I would like to meet. This fool have two profile( under different user names )on the other dating site, I am like damn are he desperate. He keep talking about his degrees, how much he travel, wait a minute ladies domestic skills is a plus(are these women suppose to be interviewing for a job or looking for someone to date or what), and he lied on his profile. I told myself don't get caught up in the looks, because you just don't know. I got my anwsers today. I don't mean any harm, somethings you just don't need anyone to give you advice on somethings, you just need to have good sense and I am happy I have some. Life goes on.