ya am a big girl but should some one go out of there way to make ya feel
bad,i have medical problems,and its hard to loose,shouldnt it be whats
in your heart that counts

OOOOOOOOOOOOOO

the should word ..

well it shouldn't but realistically it does to most>......ugh

It shouldn't but it does. I don't let what people think bother me. I am
who I am. Truly, if you are confident and believe in yourself, people on
the whole look at the person, not the package.

If they don't like you for who you are-it is their lose!

had someone to say cause my fat he couldnt be friends or any thing
more,wow it hurt my feels i wasnt asking him to be any thing but
friends

loss (sorry)

Red, honey, you didn't need him anyway.

yes it should be whats on the inside that counts...but most people are
shallow!!! Thats life i guess.....im a big girl too and i like me!!!
as long as you like you you are ok....it doesnt or shouldnt matter what
other people think of you as long as you are happy with you ya-no?

hey hun the person was a jerk so dont mined them.


fat, skinny, black, white, red, green or blue it dont matter what really
matters is what kind of person you are and how you feel about
you.

aredrosebaby,

As MissTeddy said, it is their loss. Us big girls know what people are
missing by passing us up, and it just means they are not worthy of us.
Keep your chin up honey and keep smiling.

I am also a large female. People can be very cruel. Weight is not the
only issue others have, but it most certainly is the one that causes the
most ridicule. That's what I think anyway. I have been teased, talked
down to, had people be totally rude to me. And all because they see us
as different, not like them.
I am sorry about what was said to you, it was cruel and uncalled for.
People should be more interested in what's in a persons heart, then the
size of their clothing.
Please don't ever feel bad about yourself just because of someones
stupidity. Not everyone is blind to our good qualities, and we have
many.
Good Luck in the future.
PMS

anyone that has a problem with your size tell them to take a good look
in the mirror for there brain . its probably to small to see .

It's not what's on the outside that matters. It's what's within that
counts!

Medical problems are always a problem. It's really too bad. There is a
general notion to blame the large person but some people don't realize
that the large person has a medical problem.

In general people whom are large don't have medical problems and hence
why society usually blames the large person. It is a notion that a large
person has an emotional problem hence why people also do not want to get
involved.

I am just saying possiblities of why the rejection...

I understand. and dont listen to the beautiful people who think they
dont have a problem, they do have a problem they cant see inside where
true beauty is!

<< here's a theme song for this Bodacious babe.....

I love this song~


BIG FAT MAMAS ARE BACK IN STYLE
Candye Kane

Listen, sister
You should wear a smile
Jump for joy just like a child
big fat mamas are back in style

Listen, brother
Don’t you turn that dial
Hear that crowd, going wild
big fat mamas are back in style

You need a big fat mama
And boys you can't go wrong
A big fat mama
To rule your home sweet home

Listen, baby
keep that double chin
'Cause the little fat mamas and the big fat mamas
Are back in style again

Baby, don’t treat me kind
Mama, don’t get street blind
keep that fat right where it’s at
it’s fine........ and that’s that!

Baby, don’t treat me nice
Mama, don’t get street blind
Keep that fat right where it’s at
It’s fine... and that’s that!

You need a big fat mama
And boys you can't go wrong
A big fat mama
To rule your home sweet home

Sister, Sister..
Keep that double chin
‘Cause the lil’ fat mamas and the Big fat mamas are back in style
again....

who cares if anyone thinks im pretty.... I KNOW IM SEXY!

Hope you are really listening, aredrose, because for the most part you
are hearing great advice. Been dealing with this my whole life and you
just need to concentrate on your self-confidence. Let what others think
of you slide off your back. It hurts, I know but I don't dwell on it.
Drop me a line if you ever need someone to talk to.

if they dont like your booty tell them to kiss your patootie.
Nobody is that perfect they need to be judging others.Just feel
confident in who you are ared and rock on..

I know a woman that just lost 180 lbs, and she is so proud. she is 50
and marrying a 30 year old. well, i do not know how that happened, but
maybe her heart had something to do with it.
then, there is another fellow, another one of my students, that used to
weigh 280 lbs, and he said they called him the BULLY...he was so proud
of how he could get between McDonald's seats, and I had to laugh,
because with my fat asp, I can barely squeeze in there myself. These are
testimonials from my students.