Topic: how to move on
msskarly's photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:21 AM
I did everything I could do to try to save the relationship, but in the end he wanted nothing to do with it! Says he no longer loves me...and I know hes afraid of commitment!
Any advice on how to move on when you love someone who doesnt love you back!?

prisoner's photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:32 AM

I did everything I could do to try to save the relationship, but in the end he wanted nothing to do with it! Says he no longer loves me...and I know hes afraid of commitment!
Any advice on how to move on when you love someone who doesnt love you back!?
flowers you can drop me an e-mail anytime you are a very beautiful lady and you have great sentence structure i like that in a woman be seeing you

moonlight_ride62's photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:36 AM
Edited by moonlight_ride62 on Thu 04/16/09 05:37 AM
flowerforyou TIME that is the only thing that will help..I know it hurts but you are young and there will be others...look at you..you are gorgeous and they will be knocking down the door to get to ya... chin up

May777's photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:42 AM

I did everything I could do to try to save the relationship, but in the end he wanted nothing to do with it! Says he no longer loves me...and I know hes afraid of commitment!
Any advice on how to move on when you love someone who doesnt love you back!?



I know how you feel,... :cry: was there 1 yr ago,..and sometimes it still feels like yesterday,..

how do you move on ? slowly,.ever so very slowly,..but everyday you get stronger,..

I`ll recomend a really good book that helped me understand why,..why it always feels like I`m always the only one putting energy into the relationship,..

it`s called,..

"Woman who Love too Much " bu Robin Norwood

an excellent read,..

take good care of you,.. flowerforyou

may








msskarly's photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:46 AM
Thanks guys! You are all so amazing!

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:51 AM
It's hard

But just push foward!




74Drew's photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:55 AM

flowers you can drop me an e-mail anytime you are a very beautiful lady and you have great sentence structure i like that in a woman be seeing you

yeah, what he said.
i can't get over how cute you are.


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no photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:56 AM
Just keep yourself busy...concentrate on you....and soon it will fade...seems so hard at first, but it does get better...I promiseflowers flowers

74Drew's photo
Thu 04/16/09 05:57 AM
chalk it up to experience and move on. i know it sux, but sometimes you're better off letting them go.
i may not be the king of unrequited love, but i think i rank pretty high.
don't waste your time waiting for him. you could miss out on someone really great while you're waiting.


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therapy30's photo
Thu 04/16/09 06:03 AM

I did everything I could do to try to save the relationship, but in the end he wanted nothing to do with it! Says he no longer loves me...and I know hes afraid of commitment!
Any advice on how to move on when you love someone who doesnt love you back!?


Time will help you to move on...keep yourself extra busy and make lot of friends. Be honest with yourself. Its over... and over is Over!!! thats it...
start a new chapter and make it more wonderful :thumbsup:

Pink_lady's photo
Thu 04/16/09 06:06 AM

I did everything I could do to try to save the relationship, but in the end he wanted nothing to do with it! Says he no longer loves me...and I know hes afraid of commitment!
Any advice on how to move on when you love someone who doesnt love you back!?


Either way, hes told u he doesnt love you, i know that would be enough for me to move on. Keep busy, and have fun.

If u care about urself at all, u would want to wait for something mutual, cos thats wat we all deserve.


Meg8771's photo
Thu 04/16/09 06:11 AM
mskarly,


The best advice I can give you is to realize when it is over and hold your head up high, turn around with you back to him, and walk away, hon. If it's not meant to be, don't force it.

Why waste your time when there is some one else out there who IS meant for you and will love you forever?

Spend this time taking care of you, focusing on your needs, doing what you want to do. I know you are hurting, but, the sooner you get back to you, you will heal.

My best wishes for a "speedy recovery".

flowerforyou


CrazyLibra72's photo
Thu 04/16/09 06:16 AM
Everyone gave you great advice. Focus on you and your pursuits and push forward. Time heals all wounds.