Any body have any?

I know I do, What should you say to the person who broke your heart when they say they want to have sex with you.



Especially when You think you want a sexual relationship, only you're not sure who with?

And how about what to say to a chick you went on one date with who's like creepily semi stalking you? Is attraction ok or to far when they've come to your house with out you, and stayed in their car for like three hours?

Without saying anything about coming over?

Sex with the ex is ok if YOU can handle it.. If you can't then say no and move on..

The other is a stalker pure and simple, no it's not ok.. Unless of course YOU like it...

Well...

- If your heart was broken by the person who wants to bed you, you're probably better off not going through with it, as that person will probably break your heart in some other way in the future. And it's simply not worth the mind games and the drama.

- You need to tell the creepy stalker chick that you're on to her games, and that you'll call the cops on her if she doesn't stop what she's doing.

Yeah I kinda figurd on both of those.

My ex just asked me today, we did it once before {after the breakup} and I flipped and said it's either together or not. she said something snippy I told her to F@ckoff.

She's not had sex since the last time we did.

That might not seem like much, but we had sex alot Like our days off together were a blur of sheets flesh toys and moans.


And as For Miss E will call her, Yeah my roommate told me she came by, when told I wasn't home she waited in her car, then decided that she was going to see me later, She hasn't responded to any of my texts.


The b!tch is she was actually cool on the date, we talked about things that interested us both, we each knew something the other didn't. That's a fricken rarity in my datepool.

The last chick before her couldn't even spell michigan.
Without checking her license to make sure.

Well maybe you can talk to her about the incident... Maybe your roommate got it a little wrong.. and maybe you're right and she's simply a stalker...

As for the ex, sounds to me like the f' off was the way to go and the road to keep traveling.. Let her figure our where she'll get sex.. it's not your problem.. hell most of us haven't had sex since our exes and I'll be you very FEW go back to get it.. Sex is simple, you can get that ANYWHERE... It's more than sex that is hard to find...

It's like I said- It's simply not worth the nookie with your ex. She broke your heart, and chances are that it'll happen again. You're simply better off sniffin' around somewhere else.

And if the things with Lil' Miss Stalker were simply an misunderstanding, she'd be a little more forthcoming about stuff. She wouldn't be pulling any malarkey on you. As it is, it sounds quite suspicious. Getting her license plate number would be a good thing too, in case things go south-of-the-border with her.

Yeah I talked to miss E she did come by she was in a bad mood apparently and wanted to talk, when she got to her car she said she had like a breakdown.



I don't know I'm thinking I've dealt enough with the piles of emotion for friends and women in my life.


I'd like to meet some people who are balanced.

{without xanax or prozac}

Walk a way & do not look back!

Please don't take this as an insult, because it is most certainly not intended to be.

You're 20, so I'm guessing that the majority of your crowd is in the same age group, for the most part? This means that a lot of firsts are happening for them...along with the upheaval of leaving the teens behind and moving into "adulthood". Finding someone truly balanced at that point in life is a rarity.

Not saying it won't happen, am just saying that you might have to put up with quite a bit more emotion from friends, females, etc.

I don't know about the first part, but stalkers freak me out!

Haha yeah stalkers are freaky.


Umm my age group varies, I lost my virginity to a woman nearly fifteen years my senior.

And I still regularly talk to my elder siblings friends some of whom I've been with in the past.

And on the other end some of my friends are down to late teens, at least the ones I'm interested in like that.

There are a few who go as low as fourteen, friends little brothers and such. {I was always the little one who wanted to hangout with the big kids so I try to remember how I felt when I got left behind}

I think My average friends age is about thirty though.


And they're just as screwed up as me.

Just with houses and nice cars to go along with messed up relationships and psycho people in their lives,

And I realize I'm not in the most stable age group, I know I'm not entirely stable myself.

I was with someone I was entirely devoted to, I thought I wouldn't be able to live without.

But when the time came for it I did and am doing fine. {at least as far as work and school[sort of] and friendships go}

I'm past the point where I want to be devoted, I want to be like the guys my age, who do what they want and who they want when they want.


And I guess I'm just feeling out the edges of my life for something to hold onto and pull myself entirely out of it and into something else!