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text unless you never get to talk to them at all....texting works better for me because I can think about what I want to say and delete if I make a mistake lolol  But then, in a way, you are hiding who you really are. Do you always think about what you say before you say it. Or do you sometimes make off the cuff remarks without much thought going into them?? People are people. People make mistakes in some of the things they say. That's life. And just so the folks that have talked to me about this kind of thing don't see me as some kind of hypocrite...yes, I prefer written ( or texted ) word as well. But I also feel that it really is hiding. At least a little. |
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No offense, really...but, that concept makes NO sense to me whatsoever!!!! How do you actually "know" she is not checking/listening to her voicemails? How do you actually "know" she is reading your text messages? My perception of that is if you have a way to know she will spend time "reading" something vs. actually "listening" to you...you may want to rethink your "exclusive" and "non-intrusive" relationship. Sounds more "obtusive" to me. I know because so many women have told me they never check voice mail and I've watched them read my texts when I see them in a nightclub before they see me and I send them a clever text. |
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text unless you never get to talk to them at all....texting works better for me because I can think about what I want to say and delete if I make a mistake lolol But then, in a way, you are hiding who you really are. Do you always think about what you say before you say it. Or do you sometimes make off the cuff remarks without much thought going into them?? People are people. People make mistakes in some of the things they say. That's life. And just so the folks that have talked to me about this kind of thing don't see me as some kind of hypocrite...yes, I prefer written ( or texted ) word as well. But I also feel that it really is hiding. At least a little. A little???? that's what it is. I can see it now some mommy texting her kid: "honey, you were bad earlier and need to put yourself in time out for a couple minutes" because they are too afraid to lay down the law. Texting is a plague and it will kill us all off. |
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I am not picky. Text is probably better, then I can ask them to attach a picture, since I was probably too drunk to remember what they look like hahah 
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if he has a sexy voice then by all means call
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text unless you never get to talk to them at all....texting works better for me because I can think about what I want to say and delete if I make a mistake lolol But then, in a way, you are hiding who you really are. Do you always think about what you say before you say it. Or do you sometimes make off the cuff remarks without much thought going into them?? People are people. People make mistakes in some of the things they say. That's life. And just so the folks that have talked to me about this kind of thing don't see me as some kind of hypocrite...yes, I prefer written ( or texted ) word as well. But I also feel that it really is hiding. At least a little. Applause, applause, applause! |
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I know because so many women have told me they never check voice mail and I've watched them read my texts when I see them in a nightclub before they see me and I send them a clever text. Clue: Either those women are lying to you...or they are lazy and fallen victim to "impersonal" interaction. Again, I text...but, VERY RARELY!!! And those I text with, already are aware of how much I HATE IT!!! Call me kooky...but, I just prefer the "personal" interaction. Kinda "old school" here, I suppose. 
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Clue: Either those women are lying to you...or they are lazy and fallen victim to "impersonal" interaction. Again, I text...but, VERY RARELY!!! And those I text with, already are aware of how much I HATE IT!!! Call me kooky...but, I just prefer the "personal" interaction. Kinda "old school" here, I suppose. If that's working for you then more power to you. But, I have found that I get much better responces from texting. It seems to be the thing the women I'm interested in dating are doing. And you are right. It is much less personal. I'll send the same text to 10 differant women just to see who may be up for going out. |
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Clue: Either those women are lying to you...or they are lazy and fallen victim to "impersonal" interaction. Again, I text...but, VERY RARELY!!! And those I text with, already are aware of how much I HATE IT!!! Call me kooky...but, I just prefer the "personal" interaction. Kinda "old school" here, I suppose. If that's working for you then more power to you. But, I have found that I get much better responces from texting. It seems to be the thing the women I'm interested in dating are doing. And you are right. It is much less personal. I'll send the same text to 10 differant women just to see who may be up for going out. as long as you don't use names in your generic texts, i guess you'll do alright
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LOL Yeah, I know. I'm a dog.
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