I have been talking with someone from another site. He seems nice and all that. However, my intuition is kicking in that he might be married.

Approximately 3 times that we have been talking he has had to go abruptly. And a few hours later, I would get a text from him that his son 'had a serious reaction from a bug bite' or 'hurt himself' or 'had an emergency'.

I have a son, I remember a few years ago when my son was more accident prone. But I don't remember my son having 3 trips to the ER within a month.

Also, I called him last night not long after we exchanged a couple text messages and I got his voicemail. He texted back around 11:30 pm (2 1/2 hours after I lefted the message) to see if I was still awake.

He is also on the other site until 1:30 in the morning every evening.

[Don't worry, I will follow my intuition] Just lookin' to see what you think?

It's really a duck, hon.

A man with nothing to hide, hides nothing. A good friend of mine only talks to guys after her kids are in bed. That way, she places her attention to them, and to her children while they are with her. They know nothing of her dating life, and won't until she meets a man worthy of meeting them. If this guy is sincere, why would he be making up stories? And really, if you're going to lie, at least come up with something good.

Granted, he might be telling the truth. But I hear quacking. Lying about a child is so heinous.

Well, just to jump on the bandwagon here, instincts rarely lie. They are telling you something's just not quite right, what it is has yet to be seen. It very well could be his kid is accident-prone or just having a very bad couple of weeks. My younger brother was in the ER more than he was out of it, it seemed like. But, generally speaking, that doesn't happen all that often.

Just proceed with eyes and ears open

I do the same thing and most guys are always trying to meet my kids or come over, I'm like heck naw, my kids dont need the bs and neather do I,I dont even allow ppl over to my palce, even if I've kjnow them a good long while, only a few friends come to my place,

If I'm not completely sure about somone they rarely get a chance in meeting me,(I'm more caution then ever now)

I was talking to a guy for the longest time online&off for a year online and like 5 mos off-line. He had told me he was divocred then months(which makes it like 10-11mos) later told me he needed legal advise on how to get custody of his 3 young girls, from his ex GF,

I caught him, Cuz he had said previously he was divorced from her and then said he girlfriend, so I silly,stupid me at the time,didnt check into it and come to find out months later,another 3 mos making it 2 yrs just about that I've know him and we started dating right before it became 2yrs,

I was dating a guy who had a live in GF with 3 kids under the age of 5 & 2 from his ex wife
(he copped to having an ex wife bbut kept lying bout the GF), He was also dating another chick from the same site we met on,

He also was talking to a bit more too, long story short the other girl got preg 4 wks before me,Which I found out by snooping, He went to put gas one day she called to tell him and I answered his cell, Twice that day I got a shocker, his GF called and the other girl called too,thats how I found out about both, I then found out 3 wks later that I too was pregnant!!!

If I'd of checked like your doing right now, I'd of known he had a live in GF and another chick besides me pregnant. well I left him after I left him I was stressed, and I mean stressed sick and just a mess, sad to say I lost the babes. Miss 'Lady check his background and I mean check get his name first last middle, b'day state hge was born in,do all that you need to to make sure your not getting scammed & played for a fool! I got lucky cuz he never knew where I lived and even thou he once tried to stalk me he couldnt,But I am now Drama FREE, YES ma'am I do bg checks now!
Be safe take care!

Wow...I am so sorry. Guys an Gals like that need a foot shoved up their bleep

you can type *** ... it'll just get starred out, that's all!

Darlin', I am trained to detect lies (and there is no emotional attachement to this person) so I will be able to hear a lie in his voice.

So, I will just have to ask some tough questions because my intuition is kicking in.