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i say - out "man slut" her at her own game!
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It is a 'your girlfriend is a wh0re' issue..  That's a respect issue. And she clearly doesn't respect her b/f. 
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seems like, she knows what she wants; and has made up her mind, to do, what she pleases. 
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i say - out "man slut" her at her own game! 
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 Is this a control or respect issue? In the big picture, I think its neither - its a differing opinion issue. But in your particular case, I lean towards it being a respect issue. There are some rare guys out there who, even while truly loving their woman, would not mind her doing this; and if she was with one of them, this would be fine. But she's with you, not them. To me, the lack of concern/respect this shows for your feelings is bad news. Does she hold the value that experience over the value of your feelings? I might be happy with a woman who behaved this way, but I would never be happy with a woman who was unconcerned with the impact her actions had on my feelings. |
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I just re-read your post, and realize that I jumped to some conclusions about how you felt about this.
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Edited by
JasmineInglewood
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Fri 07/24/09 03:13 PM
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where the heck do you find these women?!
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It could go either way. Really depends on those involved.
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 My girlfriend thinks it's okay to let guys flirt with her,buy her drinks,and dance all up on her,and I have nothing to worry about because she's not going to do anything with them and she's coming home with me at the end of the night. I disagree Is this a control or respect issue? I would say it is a respect issue. She knows your feelings about it and if she respects those feelings she would not think that getting free drinks and dancing around with other guys is more important than your feelings about the behaviour just to prove a point. Yes, she does go home with you in the end, but what kind of conversation are you both having with each other on the drive home? Most likely, one of the two of you is not happy about how the evening went. |
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Is this a control or respect issue? In the big picture, I think its neither - its a differing opinion issue. But in your particular case, I lean towards it being a respect issue. There are some rare guys out there who, even while truly loving their woman, would not mind her doing this; and if she was with one of them, this would be fine. But she's with you, not them. To me, the lack of concern/respect this shows for your feelings is bad news. Does she hold the value that experience over the value of your feelings? I might be happy with a woman who behaved this way, but I would never be happy with a woman who was unconcerned with the impact her actions had on my feelings.
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where the heck do you find these women?!  escort service
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I just re-read your post, and realize that I jumped to some conclusions about how you felt about this. Its just a hypothetical anyways
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My girlfriend thinks it's okay to let guys flirt with her,buy her drinks,and dance all up on her,and I have nothing to worry about because she's not going to do anything with them and she's coming home with me at the end of the night. I disagree Is this a control or respect issue? so she's a user, a game player and disrespectful? i'd let her do what she wants and have the other guys (that are buying her drinks) deal with her from now on. |
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It is a 'your girlfriend is a wh0re' issue.. IT ISS IT TOTALLY ISS!! AHAHAHAHA! Thats hilarious. That was amazingly refreshing to hear. Thanks Dan. Yeahh... cmon people.. theres gotta be SOMETHING sacred between a man and a woman. If your not smooth enough to keep your bs with other men on the dl when your out on a date.. i mean please.. Defeats the whole purpose. |
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My girlfriend thinks it's okay to let guys flirt with her,buy her drinks,and dance all up on her,and I have nothing to worry about because she's not going to do anything with them and she's coming home with me at the end of the night. I disagree Is this a control or respect issue? so she's a user, a game player and disrespectful? i'd let her do what she wants and have the other guys (that are buying her drinks) deal with her from now on.
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It is a 'your girlfriend is a wh0re' issue.. IT ISS IT TOTALLY ISS!! AHAHAHAHA! Thats hilarious. That was amazingly refreshing to hear. Thanks Dan. Yeahh... cmon people.. theres gotta be SOMETHING sacred between a man and a woman. If your not smooth enough to keep your bs with other men on the dl when your out on a date.. i mean please.. Defeats the whole purpose.
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Barbies misrepresented?
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You trying to control her.
Can't trust her when you can see her, can't trust her when you can't. either trust her or walk away. |
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Barbies misrepresented? 
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You trying to control her. Can't trust her when you can see her, can't trust her when you can't. either trust her or walk away.
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