You need to realize how fabulous you are! You need to really really really love yourself. You can be imperfect, you can be out of shape, two kids, 40 or whatever! It doesn’t mean you aren’t fabulous! AND there WILL be someone else. He might not show up tomorrow or next year or the year after, but he WILL show up. And the sooner you love yourself, know your fabulous and get the life that YOU love, the sooner he will be there for you.

OK, but "fabulous" and "intimidating" do not make a good combination!

Not if you want people to write to you....!

What here says anything about intimidating?

FOR THE SINGLE, THE LONELY, OR THOSE IN BAD RELATIONSHIPS.

I found this and thought those feeling "blue" may get some help from this. I thought It was great advice.




You need to realize how fabulous you are! You need to really really really love yourself. You can be imperfect, you can be out of shape, two kids, 40 or whatever! It doesn’t mean you aren’t fabulous! AND there WILL be someone else. He might not show up tomorrow or next year or the year after, but he WILL show up. And the sooner you love yourself, know your fabulous and get the life that YOU love, the sooner he will be there for you.

You’re miserable because you allow yourself to remain in situations that keep you miserable.

Its like this: Imagine a woman really out of shape and overweight. She is miserable that she is overweight and hates summer. She knows if she could just drop 50lbs she’d be happy. The problem? Dropping 50 lbs isn’t fun and it takes WORK. Its a LONG process and at times a person thinks…ugh…I can’t do it, its easier to just eat cake. In fact, when she eats cake she feels GOOOOOOOD. THEN she feels aweful because she is back where she started, 50lbs overweight. If she could just push through the temptation, the pain, the cravings and put in the hard work…think how happy she’ll be when she hits her goal weight!!!

This is you. Your man, is chocolate cake. He’s satisfying, but not totally satisfying because indulging in him causes you pain. Leaving him is painful, just like going on a diet. But once you do it for long enough and develop your own sense of self and a life you love, you WILL be happy. Happier than you have ever been. You need to make girlfriends, get some hobbies. You shouldn’t feel alone and lonely when you are not in a relationship. A relationship should add to you, not define you. Envision a great life as a single, sexy 20, 30, or 40-something and GO GET IT. THEN…a man, the RIGHT man, will show up. But guess what?? You won’t be worried about WHEN he shows up. You’ll be so happy and so at peace as a single woman your attitude will change. You’ll be ok single, or ok with the right man.

Just love yourself, love your life and learn to be happy no matter
what the circumstance.

oh Tami u know fine wel that is far too much for me to read, besides i refuse to be miserable - it's not becoming!

It's a sort of esoteric reference -- conceptual continuity for the illiterati....

Can you explain in english please?

do i need to read all of this? or can i just be ignorant?

You can be ignorant if I can see the chest

Well, it'll be difficult but I'll give it a shot....

Awhile back, I started something called the Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerks thread. This was in response to all the "Nice Guy" threads. I thought it would be fun to portray myself as an Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerk, for the purposes of creating a contrast with the imagery of the self-proclaimed "Nice Guys."

As always happens with anything intended to be satirical in this country, about 73% of the people who read it didn't understand what it was about, and assumed it was "for real."

Which is also pretty funny, but on an entirely different level....!

Anyway, as a card-carrying Arrogant Narcissistic Conceited Jerk ("I'm not only a client, I'm also the president"), I thought this thread would work well for me, since I alreadly KNOW I'm fabulous (Have you read my writing? Have you seen my hat?), so that's already covered.

But then I decided to juxtapose that with all the times I've been accused of being "intimidating," apprently because I can spell the word "intimidating" without looking it up. (How do they know I'm NOT looking it up? Hmmmmm.....)

Just thought it would make a nice little "Easter egg" for those who've been following this little debacle for awhile, that's all....

TAMI !!!!!!!!!!!!

OOOOOhhhh....I knew you were sexy