Topic: the love of my life.
odoyle5000's photo
Thu 07/30/09 06:59 PM
well this is kinda a long story. well my ex girlfriend that i still absolutely love told me monday that her boyfriend had been cheating on her for 2 months and the girl had been talking to my ex saying she was engaged to him. and well long story short my ex thinks he will be a good boy and not cheat ever again. even though he lives in washington state and she lives here in wisconsin. the supposed other girlfriend he had was suppose to be with him this weekend but they both told my ex that it wasnt going to happen. but i know it will. i need some advice on how to show my ex that he is the wrong person for her and that she should be with me cuz i am not the kind of guy to cheat. even if someone cheats on me i will not cheat on them. any advice???

ledi180's photo
Thu 07/30/09 07:01 PM
As much as you want to 'show' her- she has to make that decision for herself. Do you really wanna have to 'convince' her that she wants to be with you??? I know you care about her and want her to be well, but this just usually does not have a good ending - trust me. If you MUST - just be her friend - if you can do that. Even better would be just to walk away - as painful as it will be.

Best of luck flowerforyou

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Thu 07/30/09 07:24 PM
Oh you don't need to show her anything, she is showing you.
And the guy in question will keep on truckin'

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Thu 07/30/09 07:34 PM

Oh you don't need to show her anything, she is showing you.
And the guy in question will keep on truckin'


exactly

May777's photo
Thu 07/30/09 07:34 PM
I`m sorry,.but I don`t think you`ll get her back that way,.if fact she may even be more upset with you for saying anything,..

I`d say,.let nature takes it`s course,..and stay out of it,...

be your own best friend,..and don`t wait around for the outcome


auburngirl's photo
Fri 07/31/09 08:50 AM
You can't tell some people things even when they really do see it for themselves. It will all end the way it's suppose to.

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Fri 07/31/09 08:59 AM
yes....tell her that her decisions are wrong...that will win her heart