Topic: ThomasJB...
MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/30/09 09:03 AM


I suspect Tommy knows, and after all, that's all that matters. :wink:
:thumbsup:

Winx's photo
Sun 08/30/09 09:14 AM

As many of you on here know, Thomas and I met on mingle and have been a couple for quite a long time now. He was going to come see me this weekend and we were going to meet one another face to face for the first time.

However, I received news late this past Sunday evening that Tommy had passed away. I wanted to post this message so that all of his friends would know and that you all can send out prayers for this situation. I don't want him to be forgotten, I love him very much still, and I have been having a very hard time dealing with all of this. Please keep him and his family in your thoughts and prayers!

Thank you...

I miss you, Tommy!!! I love you so much!!!! :heart: :cry: sad :cry:

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.





:heart: (((((((((((((((((((THOMAS J. BROCKUS)))))))))))))))):heart:

West Des Moines

Thomas J. Brockus, 33 of West Des Moines, formerly of Centerville, passed away Sunday, August 16, 2009, at his home. A memorial service will be held 1 p.m., Thursday, August 20, 2009, at Thomas Funeral Home in Centerville.

For those that wish to send their condolence to the family I have posted the link to the Funeral Home as well. The family will receive all e-mails that are sent through the Funeral Home. Those that decide to may want to let the family know your from mingle2.

http://www.funeralplan2.com/thomasfh/obituaries?id=176591
Tommy you will be dearly missed but never forgotten...........flowers

MirrorMirror's photo
Sun 08/30/09 07:12 PM


As many of you on here know, Thomas and I met on mingle and have been a couple for quite a long time now. He was going to come see me this weekend and we were going to meet one another face to face for the first time.

However, I received news late this past Sunday evening that Tommy had passed away. I wanted to post this message so that all of his friends would know and that you all can send out prayers for this situation. I don't want him to be forgotten, I love him very much still, and I have been having a very hard time dealing with all of this. Please keep him and his family in your thoughts and prayers!

Thank you...

I miss you, Tommy!!! I love you so much!!!! :heart: :cry: sad :cry:

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.





:heart: (((((((((((((((((((THOMAS J. BROCKUS)))))))))))))))):heart:

West Des Moines

Thomas J. Brockus, 33 of West Des Moines, formerly of Centerville, passed away Sunday, August 16, 2009, at his home. A memorial service will be held 1 p.m., Thursday, August 20, 2009, at Thomas Funeral Home in Centerville.

For those that wish to send their condolence to the family I have posted the link to the Funeral Home as well. The family will receive all e-mails that are sent through the Funeral Home. Those that decide to may want to let the family know your from mingle2.

http://www.funeralplan2.com/thomasfh/obituaries?id=176591
Tommy you will be dearly missed but never forgotten...........flowers

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directandwrite's photo
Mon 08/31/09 08:23 AM
Edited by directandwrite on Mon 08/31/09 08:25 AM
Tommy, remember this song? It was the first song that I dedicated to you...not on here, but on IM. I still love and miss you very much!!!

Colbie Caillat - Fallin’ For You Lyrics

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTwoT1s4sBI

I don’t know but
I think I maybe
Fallin’ for you
Dropping so quickly
Maybe I should
Keep this to myself
Waiting ’til I
Know you better
I am trying
Not to tell you
But I want to
I’m scared of what you’ll say
So I’m hiding what I’m feeling
But I’m tired of
Holding this inside my head
I’ve been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’ve been waiting all my life
and now I found ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’m fallin’ for you
As I’m standing here
And you hold my hand
Pull me towards you
And we start to dance
All around us
I see nobody
Here in silence
It’s just you and me
I’m trying
Not to tell you
But I want to
I’m scared of what you’ll say
So I’m hiding what I’m feeling
But I’m tired of
Holding this inside my head
I’ve been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’ve been waiting all my life
and now I found ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’m fallin’ for you
Oh I just can’t take it
My heart is racing
The emotions keep spinning out
I’ve been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’ve been waiting all my life
and now I found ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’m fallin’ for you
I can’t stop thinking about it
I want you all around me
And now I just can’t hide it
I think I’m fallin’ for you (x2)
I’m fallin’ for you
Ooohhh
Oh no no
Oooooohhh
Oh I’m fallin’ for you

MirrorMirror's photo
Mon 08/31/09 08:27 AM

Tommy, remember this song? It was the first song that I dedicated to you...not on here, but on IM. I still love and miss you very much!!!

Colbie Caillat - Fallin’ For You Lyrics

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTwoT1s4sBI

I don’t know but
I think I maybe
Fallin’ for you
Dropping so quickly
Maybe I should
Keep this to myself
Waiting ’til I
Know you better
I am trying
Not to tell you
But I want to
I’m scared of what you’ll say
So I’m hiding what I’m feeling
But I’m tired of
Holding this inside my head
I’ve been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’ve been waiting all my life
and now I found ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’m fallin’ for you
As I’m standing here
And you hold my hand
Pull me towards you
And we start to dance
All around us
I see nobody
Here in silence
It’s just you and me
I’m trying
Not to tell you
But I want to
I’m scared of what you’ll say
So I’m hiding what I’m feeling
But I’m tired of
Holding this inside my head
I’ve been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’ve been waiting all my life
and now I found ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’m fallin’ for you
Oh I just can’t take it
My heart is racing
The emotions keep spinning out
I’ve been spending all my time
Just thinking about ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’ve been waiting all my life
and now I found ya
I don’t know what to do
I think I’m fallin’ for you
I’m fallin’ for you
I can’t stop thinking about it
I want you all around me
And now I just can’t hide it
I think I’m fallin’ for you (x2)
I’m fallin’ for you
Ooohhh
Oh no no
Oooooohhh
Oh I’m fallin’ for you

flowerforyou :heart: flowerforyou

LightVoice's photo
Wed 09/02/09 06:42 AM

directandwrite's photo
Wed 09/02/09 08:48 AM

grammy09's photo
Wed 09/02/09 08:55 AM
:heart: (((daw))):heart: you are in my prayers

i pray you are going to be safe and happy for that is what thomas would want as well god bless:heart: flowerforyou

directandwrite's photo
Thu 09/03/09 09:28 AM

no photo
Thu 09/03/09 09:55 AM
(((D&W)))

directandwrite's photo
Fri 09/04/09 01:06 PM
Tommy!!! I finally found the matching tigress for the tiger we found for you!!!






There we are!!!! I Love and miss you so much!!! :heart: :cry:

Holly4459's photo
Fri 09/04/09 02:11 PM
flowerforyou thinking of you DAW

directandwrite's photo
Tue 09/08/09 08:20 AM

flowerforyou thinking of you DAW


Thank you, Holly, I appreciate it. flowerforyou

directandwrite's photo
Tue 09/08/09 10:55 AM
Tommy, I'm thinking about you....I love and miss you....Maybe I don't belong there just yet, but I will one day... :cry: sad tears :heart:

Eric Clapton
Tears in Heaven

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6t4Zs5Yq_k&feature=related

Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you feel the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
cause I know I dont belong here in heaven...

Would you hold my hand
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you help me stand
If I saw you in heaven?
Ill find my way through night and day
cause I know I just cant stay here in heaven...

Time can bring you down, time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart, have you begging please...begging please

Beyond the door theres peace Im sure
And I know therell be no more tears in heaven...

Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you feel the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
cause I know I dont belong here in heaven...


romeo1975's photo
Tue 09/08/09 11:16 AM

Tommy, I'm thinking about you....I love and miss you....Maybe I don't belong there just yet, but I will one day... :cry: sad tears :heart:

Eric Clapton
Tears in Heaven

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b6t4Zs5Yq_k&feature=related

Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you feel the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
cause I know I dont belong here in heaven...

Would you hold my hand
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you help me stand
If I saw you in heaven?
Ill find my way through night and day
cause I know I just cant stay here in heaven...

Time can bring you down, time can bend your knees
Time can break your heart, have you begging please...begging please

Beyond the door theres peace Im sure
And I know therell be no more tears in heaven...

Would you know my name
If I saw you in heaven?
Would you feel the same
If I saw you in heaven?
I must be strong and carry on
cause I know I dont belong here in heaven...


thats a great song it always makes me cry, i sang that at my grandmother's funeral 10 years ago and every time i hear it, i start to lose all of my emotions

LightVoice's photo
Tue 09/08/09 07:38 PM
:heart: {{{{{{{Tab}}}}}}} you are in my thoughts hon... :heart:

alicat4213's photo
Tue 09/08/09 07:42 PM
The Dash
by Linda Ellis


I read of a man who stood to speak
At the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone
From the beginning to the end.

He noted that first came the date of her birth
And spoke of the following date with tears,
But he said what mattered most of all
Was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
That she spent alive on earth
And now only those who loved her
Know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own,
The cars, the house, the cash,
What matters is how we live and love
And how we spend our dash.

So think about this long and hard;
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
That can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
To consider what’s true and real
And always try to understand
The way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger
And show appreciation more
And love the people in our lives
Like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect
And more often wear a smile,
Remembering that this special dash
Might only last a little while.

So when your eulogy is being read
With your life’s actions to rehash
Would you be proud of the things they say
About how you spent your dash?

© 1996 Linda Ellis

directandwrite's photo
Wed 09/09/09 08:14 AM
Edited by directandwrite on Wed 09/09/09 08:15 AM
Tommy, I had a bad night last night filled with tears and little sleep. This song made me think of you...I love and miss you...:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:

Bread--"Lost Without Your Love"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PxgzlDClVuc

Lost and all alone
I always thought that I could make it on my own
Since you left I hardly make it through the day
My tears get in the way
And I need you back to stay

I wander through the night
And search the world to find
The words to make it right
All I want is just the way it used to be
With you here close to me
Ive got to make you see

That Im lost without your love
Life without you isnt worth the trouble of
Im as helpless as a ship without a wheel
A touch without a feel
I cant believe its real...

And someday soon Ill wake
And find my heart wont have to break

Yes Im lost without your love
Life without you isnt worth the trouble of
All I want is just the way it used to be
I need you here with me
Oh darlin cant you see...
If we had love before
We can have it back once more

directandwrite's photo
Thu 09/10/09 10:53 AM

franshade's photo
Thu 09/10/09 11:35 AM
DAW - dropping by to check on you..

Know times are hard for you right now, just wanted you to know I was thinking of you!!

flowerforyou