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Topic: pretending
TxsSun's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:40 PM
Have you ever swallowed your feelings and pretended to not care more than
A friend, to keep a friend?

PATSFAN's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:41 PM
shocked I don't swallow my friendsshocked

papersmile's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:42 PM
sure. the last thing i want to do is to make a friend uncomfortable hanging around me if my feelings are different than his.

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:42 PM
Nope....if my feelings towards a friend become more, I tell them... and then distance myself until I can get my sh*te together...usually it triggers some 'neediness' in me, that I am transposing onto them.

I try to keep it real...even if it means losing a friendship.

STARTRAVELER's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:44 PM

Have you ever swallowed your feelings and pretended to not care more than
A friend, to keep a friend?
Yep

ladyloverlol's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:45 PM

Have you ever swallowed your feelings and pretended to not care more than
A friend, to keep a friend?


yeah i cant do it

no photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:45 PM
oh feelings? ohwell

TxsSun's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:47 PM

Nope....if my feelings towards a friend become more, I tell them... and then distance myself until I can get my sh*te together...usually it triggers some 'neediness' in me, that I am transposing onto them.

I try to keep it real...even if it means losing a friendship.



That is a great answer Jess

Ladylid2012's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:48 PM
nope..I were my heart on my sleeve, they would no anyway. If it were to much for me I would just duck out..

TxsSun's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:48 PM

oh feelings? ohwell


You know who I am talking about :wink:

andreajayne's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:49 PM
yep!

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:49 PM

Have you ever swallowed your feelings and pretended to not care more than
A friend, to keep a friend?


Considering friends is all I want, I've never ran into this problem...as the objective in my mind is friends, nothing more.

no photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:50 PM


oh feelings? ohwell


You know who I am talking about :wink:


yup :wink: just ride it out sweetie :smile:

Quietman_2009's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:50 PM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Tue 08/18/09 05:50 PM
ummm no

all my friends are beer drinkin snuff dippin rednecks and they would kick my azz if I had those kind of feelings for them

no photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:50 PM

ummm no

all my friends are beer drinkin snuff dippin rednecks and they would kick my azz if I had those kind of feelings for them


really? drool drool drool

Quietman_2009's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:52 PM
dang it!

you always make me laugh when I'm tryin drink something

Gossipmpm's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:52 PM
Yea

Of course this pollyana would!!

TxsSun's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:53 PM
Lets get a little more specific.
You were dating someone, fell in love, then
realized they were still in love with someone
else. Could you hide your feelings to be their
friend?

no photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:53 PM
Edited by gayfifer on Tue 08/18/09 05:54 PM
smooched bigsmile (((Robin)))

Jess642's photo
Tue 08/18/09 05:54 PM


Nope....if my feelings towards a friend become more, I tell them... and then distance myself until I can get my sh*te together...usually it triggers some 'neediness' in me, that I am transposing onto them.

I try to keep it real...even if it means losing a friendship.



That is a great answer Jess


I'm so hopeless, I fall in love with my friends..I get these giant crushes on them...both male and female..and if it is weirding me out, it HAS to be weirding them out.

I am fortunate that I have a partner who knows how hopeless I am, and isn't threatened by my secret gooey romantic side (tell anyone and I will have to cut out your tongue laugh )...and he is usually the one who helps me figure out what it was that triggered those feelings.


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