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Topic: Why Is It So Hard To Love?
mscherbear's photo
Tue 08/25/09 09:42 PM
Unfortunately for me, it's not hard. I fall too easily and leave myself wide open for the hurt. frown

FearandLoathing's photo
Tue 08/25/09 09:46 PM
Because it will always be easier to hate.

longhairbiker's photo
Tue 08/25/09 09:49 PM



:heart: Why is it so hard to love after being hurt so many times?:heart:
...oh cmon! That question answers itself. DUH!!!!

no photo
Wed 08/26/09 01:07 AM

Because it will always be easier to hate.


sometimes...sometimes not....love love love smitten

HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Wed 08/26/09 01:14 AM




:heart: Why is it so hard to love after being hurt so many times?:heart:
...oh cmon! That question answers itself. DUH!!!!


+1 That's what I was going to say

no photo
Wed 08/26/09 01:20 AM

Unfortunately for me, it's not hard. I fall too easily and leave myself wide open for the hurt. frown


flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 08/26/09 08:43 PM


Because it will always be easier to hate.


sometimes...sometimes not....love love love smitten
flowers

no photo
Wed 08/26/09 10:08 PM



:heart: Why is it so hard to love after being hurt so many times?:heart:


Consider it a form of negative reinforcement-

It's kinda like being a toddler and getting your finger burned playing with an open flame. Sooner or later, you figure out that trying to touch fire is not a good thing to do. Unless you're an idiot that is, at which point you'll probably still go about trying to touch that fire.

The same thing goes for "love", too- you get crapped on so many times that you "learn" not to go through any of that crap anymore.

no photo
Wed 08/26/09 11:10 PM



Because it will always be easier to hate.


sometimes...sometimes not....love love love smitten
flowers


LOL, thanks mirrordrinker

MirrorMirror's photo
Thu 08/27/09 07:56 PM




Because it will always be easier to hate.


sometimes...sometimes not....love love love smitten
flowers


LOL, thanks mirrordrinker
flowers

misswright's photo
Thu 08/27/09 08:19 PM



:heart: Why is it so hard to love after being hurt so many times?:heart:


Burn me once, shame on you; burn me twice, shame on me. I don't trust my own judgement now. How many times do I need to stick my hand in the fire before I learn to go play in the pool? I'm a cold fish now.ohwell

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 08/28/09 01:03 PM




:heart: Why is it so hard to love after being hurt so many times?:heart:


Burn me once, shame on you; burn me twice, shame on me. I don't trust my own judgement now. How many times do I need to stick my hand in the fire before I learn to go play in the pool? I'm a cold fish now.ohwell
flowerforyou

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