over the years ive dated meny women i seem to all ways atract crazy weomen i know there has to be sane ones out there dont thank im calling all women crazy im not lol now that you know im a magnent for crazy am i the only one who has this problem ? i would love to hear stories

:that's what my son calls me a magnent for jerks hopefully the last one was the last one.

im sory i know how it is the last gril i dated tryed to stab me in her sleep becouse she though i was flurting with her mother

Hmmm, if your dating history repeats itself with the same pathology, maybe you should look into YOU as the potential problem?

Einstein said “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results”.

Change your expectations and be more selective as to who you date. Blaming others for being “crazy” seems so immature. Yes, people have issues but you don’t have to enable them or associate with them -- and then act SHOCKED when they behave as anticipated.

ive changed every thang about me and it dosent seam to help im prety down to earth

The Queen of Wierdo/Crazy Magnets.....making my appearance!

Welcome to Mingle!!!!!!!!

It's great that you've had self-reflection but being down to earth is not to what I am referring.

I'm sure there are red flags with these "crazy" women you attract. Raise your bar and don't accept certain attitudes and behaviors.

If a girl seems normal when you meet but things soon fall apart, you are probably enabling each other; pushing each other's buttons; and adding to your dysfunction.

The aforementioned are skills you learn as you get older. If you don't learn your lessons then you repeat the problem.

The first time the stove burned your hand, you learned. Why are bad relationships any different? I don't mean to sound harsh but I have little tolerance for people that continue to have problems; they hear advice and ignore it; but then repeat and whine again.

As I say to my Boot Camp class -- "Suck it up Nancy"

its when i raised my bar the crazy weome came out i understand what your sayin ill take a look at my self and see why im atracting crazy

Just take a little time off

Regroup....

Start again!:

Don't try to force things on yourself, which isn't you, for someone's else benefit, just stay yourself.

Whats the pay-off, ask your self "What do I get out of being with crazy women???"

Could be they are a lot of fun at first.
The challenge.
Maybe you like the 'Rescuer' role.

i have i took a year and now im back but it never hurts to look at one self and hear ideas of the people around you you all have a great week end