Topic: !!!Disabled?!!! Why not Date? Why Date?
babyhughy's photo
Sun 09/06/09 08:39 AM
Edited by babyhughy on Sun 09/06/09 09:31 AM
Anyone in or near Carbondale, Illinois area not let it sway you in any form? If so why? If not can you start a relationship course with people to teach them we are people also with wants!!!!? AND NEEDS!!!!!!!!!!!!! Take me for instence Disabled but I can out do and out think others that aren't disabled But it's only on great days on other days I forget things real easy!!! Not if they are perpetual like people (friends, relatives)!!! Or things of a close surrounding!!!

bgeorge's photo
Sun 09/06/09 09:24 AM
hey and welcome...doesn't matter...bflowerforyou

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 09/06/09 09:26 AM
I have no idea what that said

take a deep breath, calm down, and try again

babyhughy's photo
Sun 09/06/09 09:41 AM
blushing Thank You added to it just a tiny bit check it out OKbigsmile You take care!!!

tessa68's photo
Sun 09/06/09 09:44 AM
hi and welcome to Mingleflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou no problemdrinker

Quietman_2009's photo
Sun 09/06/09 09:45 AM
Edited by Quietman_2009 on Sun 09/06/09 09:45 AM
fer instance I am disabled and sick

but I just see it as something that slows me down and makes me work a little harder

and it didnt stop me from getting a great girlfriend

babyhughy's photo
Sun 09/06/09 09:46 AM
What I added should clear it up for even the common Layman!!! You should have no problem now!!! bigsmile

babyhughy's photo
Sun 09/06/09 10:22 AM
I do also but I have to use a kane where others don't!!! I can't remember like others can that is my worst downfall!!! Well that and my income is shabby I only get a small small minute pension from retirement from the Army!!! And a small income from SS & Medicare disability. But hey Life goes on I did!!!!!!!!:angel: The only thing I dislike about my disability besides having it is NOT Being able to be the man and pick So & So upfor a date drop them off or take them anywhere!!! Cause I can't drive cause of my injury. So I have to take it one day at a time it's worse than alcoholism!!! Of which I haven't drank in over 13 years or more!!!:banana:

no photo
Sun 09/06/09 10:24 AM
what part is disabled???huh

babyhughy's photo
Sun 09/06/09 10:30 AM
Edited by babyhughy on Sun 09/06/09 11:07 AM

babyhughy's photo
Sun 09/06/09 10:42 AM
My Skull I broke it on 3 different occasions. A Total of 29 breaks’ on the third breaking occasion; I broke every bone in my Body also but I do great!!! Perseverance has paid off!!! I get what I want it just takes time to get it!!! 9 years is Long enough though I'm getting upset with time!!!

babyhughy's photo
Sun 09/06/09 11:05 AM
Edited by babyhughy on Sun 09/06/09 11:06 AM

Dragoness's photo
Sun 09/06/09 11:17 AM

Anyone in or near Carbondale, Illinois area not let it sway you in any form? If so why? If not can you start a relationship course with people to teach them we are people also with wants!!!!? AND NEEDS!!!!!!!!!!!!! Take me for instence Disabled but I can out do and out think others that aren't disabled But it's only on great days on other days I forget things real easy!!! Not if they are perpetual like people (friends, relatives)!!! Or things of a close surrounding!!!


I am not sure of the meaning here but hell yea disabled folks date and have fulfilling relationships too. Disability is just another human condition that all humans have to differing degrees. We all deal with things when we love. The question just becomes is it too much for us to bear and if it is then we need to move on.

babyhughy's photo
Sun 09/06/09 02:29 PM
Well Most woman that I have dated at first couldn't tell I was disabled but when told they was gone in a flash!!!! I say income is the downfall but who knows maybe just me!!!! But I say it is not!

catseyes1's photo
Sun 09/06/09 04:16 PM
You are still human and for the woman who run out on you after you tell them that you are disabled, to hell with them they are just not for you and probably do not know what they are missing. Just be yourself and good luck in your search.