Topic: Do Not Date Him.Com
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Thu 09/10/09 04:43 PM
My girlfriend found the guy I'm dating on the website donotdatehimgirl.com. His photo was posted and about a dozen posts made about him being a sociopath and flying girls from the internet in from all over the place just to sleep with them, he's a player, he's a liar and on and on.

I've found him to be fun and sweet and playful, honest even though he is a huge flirt and kind of a perve but a good one.

Girlfriend can't stand him and insists I must stop seeing him. I like him. Am I making a MISTAKE? I think that I want a serious relationship with a marriage-minded guy but it seems like I'm enjoying the fun and games.

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Thu 09/10/09 04:44 PM
Congratulations

heavenlyboy34's photo
Thu 09/10/09 04:45 PM
since anyone can put anything on the net, I'd do some independent research first.

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Thu 09/10/09 04:47 PM
Errrr.... Ummmmm.....

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Thu 09/10/09 04:51 PM
Edited by savagirl on Thu 09/10/09 04:53 PM

Congratulations


it was like winning a prize

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Thu 09/10/09 04:53 PM
Edited by savagirl on Thu 09/10/09 04:53 PM

since anyone can put anything on the net, I'd do some independent research first.
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yes, it seems kind of crazy

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Thu 09/10/09 05:00 PM
Edited by WolfEyez on Thu 09/10/09 05:02 PM
ARE YOU SERIOUSLY NUTS?!

What are you going to do when you eventually realize you want more than fun and games with him?

Furthermore, Why would you go to a website with such a name and then pick a guy off of there? Do you not realize they are on there for a REASON?!

Lastly, guys who are huge flirts will probably never stop. Even if they are with someone or messing with someone. You will most likely find yourself jealous at some point.

Also, he's probably sweet, playful and honest with you because he's looking to use you for a bit. By the way, you can't always tell if someone is really being honest until you have known them for a while ... and I mean at least 5 months or more IN PERSON. It is easy to lie over the net.

Don't be foolish. You've got to be better than that.

That website you mentioned also never exists, which makes me believe I posted this for nothing ...

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Thu 09/10/09 05:04 PM
No no.. keep dating him. rofl

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Thu 09/10/09 05:08 PM
People put stuff up in bitterness. Take it with a grain of salt.

On the other hand, if a good friend hates a guy you are seeing, it pays to figure out why.

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Thu 09/10/09 05:10 PM

ARE YOU SERIOUSLY NUTS?!

What are you going to do when you eventually realize you want more than fun and games with him?

Furthermore, Why would you go to a website with such a name and then pick a guy off of there? Do you not realize they are on there for a REASON?!

Lastly, guys who are huge flirts will probably never stop. Even if they are with someone or messing with someone. You will most likely find yourself jealous at some point.

Also, he's probably sweet, playful and honest with you because he's looking to use you for a bit. By the way, you can't always tell if someone is really being honest until you have known them for a while ... and I mean at least 5 months or more IN PERSON. It is easy to lie over the net.

Don't be foolish. You've got to be better than that.

That website you mentioned also never exists, which makes me believe I posted this for nothing ...





http://www.dontdatehimgirl.com/

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Thu 09/10/09 05:15 PM
Edited by WolfEyez on Thu 09/10/09 05:17 PM
okay, now I've found it and know more about the site.

Like I said before, ARE YOU NUTS?! That's just asking for a whole bunch of unwanted drama for both parties.

But ...

I have a feeling the previous piece of advice is going to be disregarded, especially since none of my previous questions were answered ..

Furthermore, the website seems like a joke. Mommy mating? Please ... we aren't animals

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Thu 09/10/09 05:19 PM
Eyes WIDE open slaphead


You will do what want - just know you were warned ... and be safe! flowerforyou

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Thu 09/10/09 05:32 PM
Lots of women post their ex's on that site after they've been dumped or cheated on, so as someone else said, I wouldn't rely too much on that for information about him. If you like him, and you're getting what you want from him, keep dating him. You can't let other people tell you who to date, it's no one's business but yours.flowerforyou