Topic: The ick factor
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Sun 10/04/09 05:48 PM
Edited by Sandcrab on Sun 10/04/09 05:49 PM



What happens when you been emailing a person and talking to them on the phone. Then when you meet them in person you cringe at the thought of them touching you and God for bid if they kissed you. What happens then---tell them nicely---Good bye
smile2 It shouldnt have gotten that far.smile2 A person should be known before the meeting.smile2 webcamsmile2


To some extent webcams help but that doesn't show his table manners; if he is aware of buggers in his nose; food on his face; if he burps in your direction; if he wears rafting type sandals and has really ugly feet; long nose hairs or hair that grows on TOP of his nose; hair in his ears; dirty finger nails .... stuff like that! :laughing:

I met a lady like that on a blind date a friend( some friend) set me up with.
Scared me from dating for months.laugh

southern_bee's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:50 PM
reminds me of a date from other dating website..

he had this weird black spot on his teeth then tried to grab my boobs and was like wtf do u think youre doing?!

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Sun 10/04/09 05:56 PM

reminds me of a date from other dating website..

he had this weird black spot on his teeth then tried to grab my boobs and was like wtf do u think youre doing?!

maybe he was trying to rub the black spot off with your boob.
Very strange.noway

southern_bee's photo
Sun 10/04/09 05:58 PM


reminds me of a date from other dating website..

he had this weird black spot on his teeth then tried to grab my boobs and was like wtf do u think youre doing?!

maybe he was trying to rub the black spot off with your boob.
Very strange.noway



i think the black spot was permanent then he messaged me on yahoo a few weeks after apologizing and asking for another date

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Sun 10/04/09 06:00 PM
I hope you put a block on him.
Now that is an ick!

southern_bee's photo
Sun 10/04/09 06:01 PM

I hope you put a block on him.
Now that is an ick!


oh heck yes i did and i block him from the site i think but a few times after that he perved my profile on the site.lol

cosmeticxeyes's photo
Sun 10/04/09 06:03 PM
tell them...

"i'm just not ready"

i know someone who would just drive away, quickly...but i think that's a bit cruel.

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Sun 10/04/09 06:04 PM
Go figure!

Totage's photo
Sun 10/04/09 06:07 PM

What happens when you been emailing a person and talking to them on the phone. Then when you meet them in person you cringe at the thought of them touching you and God for bid if they kissed you. What happens then---tell them nicely---Good bye


Yeah that would probably be the best thing to do. Be honest and upfront, just let them know you don't think it's going to workout. You don't have to give a reason, just let them know it's not working out.

TJ_777's photo
Sun 10/04/09 06:12 PM
OK Spock ...we gotta ICK factor 10....let's get the WARP outta here!

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sun 10/04/09 10:02 PM
Edited by CatsLoveMe on Sun 10/04/09 10:03 PM
You'll have to ask Sulu and Scotty that. They have the helm and the warp engine.laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 10/04/09 10:15 PM

What happens when you been emailing a person and talking to them on the phone. Then when you meet them in person you cringe at the thought of them touching you and God for bid if they kissed you. What happens then---tell them nicely---Good bye


yep, the beautiful thing about chemistry is it's either there or it's not!

mendy2's photo
Mon 10/05/09 02:41 PM
exit left-----now run

BeautifulNTV's photo
Tue 10/06/09 02:23 AM
I have been on both sides of THAT fence...I just tell them at the end of the meeting "I'm sorry, you're just not my type" but smile.

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Tue 10/06/09 02:31 AM

reminds me of a date from other dating website..

he had this weird black spot on his teeth then tried to grab my boobs and was like wtf do u think youre doing?!



I guess he has never heard of teeth whitening......dah it is advertized in every type of media computer, TV, radio, billboards.explode

mendy2's photo
Tue 10/06/09 11:38 AM
Well at least Iam getting to meet new people even if I dont like them lol

mendy2's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:02 PM
I like everyone,,I just dont want to marry them

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Mon 10/19/09 08:20 PM




Hey did any of you brain trusts think of this??/
Dont show up EXPECTING to be kissed or anything
just show up to meet a potential friend and let it happen naturaly or not!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
sheeeeeeeeshhhhhhhhh lol
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squonk's photo
Tue 10/20/09 02:24 AM
That's why you ask for a picture so that you can envision them touching you :).

mendy2's photo
Tue 10/20/09 02:24 PM
not true,If seen men photos but in person--yuk