That may sound impossible to do, but really, it's not calculus or anything. Take these three simple steps and you will be fine.

Step One: First you have to know that everything she tells you is for a reason. Listen close, there may be a quiz later. Let her know that you are hanging on her every word. Base your questions on what she is telling you. As she is sharing a story or an experience, ask probing questions, not the average yeah or naw. It turns women off if they are talking to you on the net and can't hold a conversation or use one or two word responses.


Step Two: Never bring up sex. Women are hit on with sleazy lines and sexual innuendos all the time "But mine are good!" you say. Believe me, no matter how good you think they are, they still deal with sex and most women are tired of hearing it.

Step Three: If you really want to get their attention, understand the things that they are NOT saying are just as important as what they are telling you. I promise, if you start figuring out things without them having to spoon feed you every response, things will start to click with faster for the two of you.

Will this method guarantee you success? There are no guarantees, but by the end of the conversation you should have a better idea about this woman and if you want to pursue them.

Okay I was bored.....lol

Peccy, What am I NOT saying right here?:






















































...Yeah, I have no idea either.




I miss you!

This post will get moved to R rated if I say that Hasidic..........lol

The questions is Do guys really want to understand a woman or just want a woman?

They want to..they also realize that is next to impossible so some don't try..
can't blame them. Women are complicated, men are simple, not in a bad way. just simple to understand, we however are not.

what exactly are you trying to say???

well, ALL the other women are complicated Fran, not you and I..

I don't think men are simple at all. LOL

I am complicatedly simple!

I made the conscience decision to really try to understand Angel before we met. After one year online and six months now living together I won't claim to completely understand her, but I do know her better than anyone else.

So yes, as for me I really wanted to understand her and it makes things MUCH easier!

With effort it isn't all that complicated is it...

I still scratch my head at times, but yes, it was worth the effort!

eh, don't feel bad..we scratch our own heads...

That's just it. You made the CONSCIENCE decision. I applaud you for that!

what???

is this like fishing in a fish pond, telling of which bait to use???

if a man wish to understand a women, to "possess" a women, for his perosnal satisfaction, looking to be worshipped by a women, he shall learn nothing but how to manipulate, coerce, entice, decieve, abuse, all things but himself, but even doing this, will abuse himself, as he will never be content with himself, nor anything outside of himself, as he has not yet learned what he was sent to planet earth to learn???

to love something besides himself, more than himself???

how can one love two master's, itself, and another???

it is a conflict of interest, an ulterior motive created within oneself, is it not???

if a man even cares for something, more than for what he "wants",
he will want to hear, not to achieve for "self", but rather to be a women's helper, her friend, as what more is a friend, than one who has agenda, but entirely lay's it aside, for the sake of the VALUE, that he see's another to be of???

no man that wishes to be loved, will hear the honest words telling of how he does not love, told to him by a women, as he will be too busy conspiring in his heart with wishes, whims, and wants and even coming to demands, to be loved...

one cent

and that relates to understanding a woman how? Possess? Love? Are you on acid my friend?

Read this part of his pesponse. You'll get a better idea of what he is saying. I don't think he wants to posses anything!

""if a man even cares for something, more than for what he "wants",
he will want to hear, not to achieve for "self", but rather to be a women's helper, her friend, as what more is a friend, than one who has agenda, but entirely lay's it aside, for the sake of the VALUE, that he see's another to be of???""

Men are simple? Really? I'd love for you to explain them to me then, because I seem to be at a loss of understanding.