Topic: when's the last time you was tard happy?
bedlum1's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:01 PM



I always wind up doing stuff that is off the wall. How else am I gonna make people smile
not other people smile...you.... something u lost youself in that made you laugh and forget anyone thats watchin cause you are havin so much fun yoj lose yourself........


Oops I found myself dancing at work to this one swing song and that always makes me feel like dancing.
thats betterflowerforyou

redhead44613's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:03 PM


hmm... I can't think of any "tard" happy moments
come on babe,,ive seen you and beth together.you two get goofy...gotta be something there
That is just us being...us. I have a lot of happy memories but nothing like what you call tard happy.

bedlum1's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:06 PM



hmm... I can't think of any "tard" happy moments
come on babe,,ive seen you and beth together.you two get goofy...gotta be something there
That is just us being...us. I have a lot of happy memories but nothing like what you call tard happy.
you never done anything that made you laugh your *** off and afterwards you couldnt believe you did it?

redhead44613's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:08 PM
honestly... no

OneMind's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:13 PM
I just got hard happy looking at MelodyGirl's new profile pic. Oh wait, did you say "tard" happy? Oh okay, never mind.

bedlum1's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:16 PM

honestly... no
we'll fix that..bring depends..lmao.smokin flowers

MelodyGirl's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:17 PM

I just got hard happy looking at MelodyGirl's new profile pic. Oh wait, did you say "tard" happy? Oh okay, never mind.


blushing thank you blushing

redhead44613's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:17 PM
I have had moments of " I cant believe I did that" but never happy moments. frustrated

bedlum1's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:29 PM

I have had moments of " I cant believe I did that" but never happy moments. frustrated
yeah not those ones...
thats ok baby i'll take care of that for you...by the time we're done you'll be wiping the tears of laughter from your face and feel like a total goof but love it....you need it you deserve it...muah..flowers

redhead44613's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:30 PM


I have had moments of " I cant believe I did that" but never happy moments. frustrated
yeah not those ones...
thats ok baby i'll take care of that for you...by the time we're done you'll be wiping the tears of laughter from your face and feel like a total goof but love it....you need it you deserve it...muah..flowers
:heart: :heart: smooched

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:44 PM

ok so when was the last time, what was it?
tard happy is when you do something totaly off the wall not thinkin just doin and havin so much fun you look mental...
mine......
friend and i at a yard sale yesterday.
found two old romper balls,
we hopped on and had a race around the yard..i was laughin so hard halfway through i forgot who i was.....totaly tard happy...lolrofl


While I can be the biggest kid on the block being silly for fun I really have to say I don't like this term. It is a bad hangover that most of the people who have dropped other offensive words from their vocabulary should consider downloading rather than promoteing.

Don't care how people, or lack talent comedians, try to dress it up it is a cruel piggyback on a bigotted label. It is painful for the folks who are mentally challenged and anyone who cares for them wheather they wince silently or cry in provate about it.

Not every one can be born with the mental capacity of Einstein so why is it ok to make cheap shots at those who do their best to stay in the game anyway. This word, and it's variations, plays to the lowest of stereotypes. I can think of no-one that would genuinely like to be called such and insulting reference.

I am not trying to make anyone feel bad, trying to come up with a new forum is cool. Especially thinking of a time you felt silly and fun is great! Mingeler's are great about "Cutting up" with friends, but I just hope this little concept of calling it this particular slur will fade out. Just a thought. Peace out.

bedlum1's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:47 PM


ok so when was the last time, what was it?
tard happy is when you do something totaly off the wall not thinkin just doin and havin so much fun you look mental...
mine......
friend and i at a yard sale yesterday.
found two old romper balls,
we hopped on and had a race around the yard..i was laughin so hard halfway through i forgot who i was.....totaly tard happy...lolrofl


While I can be the biggest kid on the block being silly for fun I really have to say I don't like this term. It is a bad hangover that most of the people who have dropped other offensive words from their vocabulary should consider downloading rather than promoteing.

Don't care how people, or lack talent comedians, try to dress it up it is a cruel piggyback on a bigotted label. It is painful for the folks who are mentally challenged and anyone who cares for them wheather they wince silently or cry in provate about it.

Not every one can be born with the mental capacity of Einstein so why is it ok to make cheap shots at those who do their best to stay in the game anyway. This word, and it's variations, plays to the lowest of stereotypes. I can think of no-one that would genuinely like to be called such and insulting reference.

I am not trying to make anyone feel bad, trying to come up with a new forum is cool. Especially thinking of a time you felt silly and fun is great! Mingeler's are great about "Cutting up" with friends, but I just hope this little concept of calling it this particular slur will fade out. Just a thought. Peace out.

bedlum1's photo
Mon 10/19/09 08:53 PM
i got realitives that are retarded...anx they are the happiest people ive ever met...politcal correctness goes to far...first of all a true mentaly retarded person isnt goin to know the difference..i know ive taken care of them...difference between mentaly slow and retarded....have you truelly seen how happy these people are? they dont have a care in the world. they're happy with the simplest things and get exstatic over the extras... so lighten up a little..hell most the time i wish i was retardedflowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 10/19/09 10:17 PM

i got realitives that are retarded...anx they are the happiest people ive ever met...politcal correctness goes to far...first of all a true mentaly retarded person isnt goin to know the difference..i know ive taken care of them...difference between mentaly slow and retarded....have you truelly seen how happy these people are? they dont have a care in the world. they're happy with the simplest things and get exstatic over the extras... so lighten up a little..hell most the time i wish i was retardedflowerforyou


You could not be more wrong. Mentally retardation has many levels and when you use this slur you insult a wide range of people with a wide range of functions.

To say they are oblivious to being mimiced and unable to know they are being called a name is ridiculous. That they may not always have the ability to vocalize their pain or defend themselves from such heartless absurdities and discrimination does not make it right.

To say they don't have a care in the world is something you have been falsely made to believe. It makes me crindge to think you are a care giver. Even the most profoundly mentally challenged know when they are being handled with dignity and love and when they are being treated with predjudice and and ignorance.

As far as wishing you were retarded I can only say becareful for what you wish for. Mother Nature has a true sense of Karma.

As far as lightening up I thought I was being pretty generious but some people want to stick with their bigotry rather than learn or care how they are percieved.

no photo
Mon 10/19/09 11:09 PM
Retardation could also refer to the feeling of retraction or disassociation that euphoria can bring - the appearance that everything is slowing down or you are moving slower than the world around you. The sensation is similar to when someone says "It all happened so fast" or "My heart skipped a beat." Or it could mean the other thing.

One thing that truly makes me happy is climbing trees. My friends and I still go into the forest and find those thin trees that go straight up like a rope, get about thirty feet in the air, and then ride the trees to the ground. The feeling is amazing - the isolation of being so high and so alone with no sense of safety, and the way that plummeting towards the earth uncertainly tickles your heart.

The trees don't snap - they continue to grow and we see them the next year when we go back, the trail marked by the arches of nature and our collective work.

bedlum1's photo
Tue 10/20/09 06:13 AM


i got realitives that are retarded...anx they are the happiest people ive ever met...politcal correctness goes to far...first of all a true mentaly retarded person isnt goin to know the difference..i know ive taken care of them...difference between mentaly slow and retarded....have you truelly seen how happy these people are? they dont have a care in the world. they're happy with the simplest things and get exstatic over the extras... so lighten up a little..hell most the time i wish i was retardedflowerforyou


You could not be more wrong. Mentally retardation has many levels and when you use this slur you insult a wide range of people with a wide range of functions.

To say they are oblivious to being mimiced and unable to know they are being called a name is ridiculous. That they may not always have the ability to vocalize their pain or defend themselves from such heartless absurdities and discrimination does not make it right.

To say they don't have a care in the wo

bedlum1's photo
Tue 10/20/09 06:20 AM
the word retarded is not a nasty word...its what people do with it in a purposefully hurtful way....
unlike most words that are considered nasty ...the word retarded didnt start out that way..i was used to describe medicaly the condition of the brain....it wasnt until uptight people tryin to push their idea of what is right on others came up with the term politicaly correct....if you ask me some of the terms they came up with are worse tgan the originals....
oh these are the same people who like to tell you how to raise your own kids to..

bedlum1's photo
Tue 10/20/09 06:27 AM
so yeah lighten up..
its a light hearted post..
its what its meant to be..
to make people smile,,,
your not gonna change my mind,,
and im ok with it,,,
sorry your not,,
political correctness in everything tends to sap some of the humor outta people....my condolences

MelodyGirl's photo
Tue 10/20/09 12:43 PM

so yeah lighten up..
its a light hearted post..
its what its meant to be..
to make people smile,,,
political correctness in everything tends to sap some of the humor outta people....



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bedlum1's photo
Tue 10/20/09 01:07 PM


so yeah lighten up..
its a light hearted post..
its what its meant to be..
to make people smile,,,
political correctness in everything tends to sap some of the humor outta people....



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