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Topic: In your own words
Jill298's photo
Tue 11/03/09 08:08 PM

I have too many strikes against me and I'm not willing to change any of them at this time in my life.

1. I'm in my 40's
2. I have small children at home half the time
3. I'm overweight (actually I guess I am changing this one slowly)
4. I have Lupus
5. I'm Pagan
6. I'm not willing to ever marry again
7. I'm not willing to live with anyone for at least the next 7-10 years

It's not any one of these things, it's the combination that I think turns most guys off. But, I'm happy with my life and if a guy comes along who can accept all that then that's great. If not, I'll be okay. bigsmile

I'd so not marry you and not live with you... wait, I already do that laugh

Sneaksintoyourheart's photo
Tue 11/03/09 08:13 PM
i single cause i haven't met mr right yet seem to be getting all the jerks again but im in no rush to find him maybe some day i will bigsmile bigsmile

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Tue 11/03/09 08:15 PM

i single cause i haven't met mr right yet seem to be getting all the jerks again but im in no rush to find him maybe some day i will bigsmile bigsmile


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Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/03/09 08:16 PM


I have too many strikes against me and I'm not willing to change any of them at this time in my life.

1. I'm in my 40's
2. I have small children at home half the time
3. I'm overweight (actually I guess I am changing this one slowly)
4. I have Lupus
5. I'm Pagan
6. I'm not willing to ever marry again
7. I'm not willing to live with anyone for at least the next 7-10 years

It's not any one of these things, it's the combination that I think turns most guys off. But, I'm happy with my life and if a guy comes along who can accept all that then that's great. If not, I'll be okay. bigsmile

I'd so not marry you and not live with you... wait, I already do that laugh


If only I were gay, Jill. smitten

Jill298's photo
Tue 11/03/09 08:18 PM



I have too many strikes against me and I'm not willing to change any of them at this time in my life.

1. I'm in my 40's
2. I have small children at home half the time
3. I'm overweight (actually I guess I am changing this one slowly)
4. I have Lupus
5. I'm Pagan
6. I'm not willing to ever marry again
7. I'm not willing to live with anyone for at least the next 7-10 years

It's not any one of these things, it's the combination that I think turns most guys off. But, I'm happy with my life and if a guy comes along who can accept all that then that's great. If not, I'll be okay. bigsmile

I'd so not marry you and not live with you... wait, I already do that laugh


If only I were gay, Jill. smitten
smitten smitten

Goofball73's photo
Tue 11/03/09 08:55 PM
Why am I single? That is easy. Me and my ex came to a mutual understanding that we were not right for one another.

Do I want to change this? You asked for honesty, so here goes. Yeah, I would LIKE to change it...someday. But as it stands now, I just don't actually "feel" dateable. I am comfortable with being single, but here is what I wonder. See, I wonder I was meant to be with someone. You see, in a sense, I have failed in past relationships to find a "match". Yes, I try. I was married, and I thought that would be the be all end all of it. But it wasn't. I started dating, met a great girl, thought things would work, and they didn't. So, for now, I am single.

I am picky. I don't just date anyone. And, I will admit this here and now, there is a certain woman on here that peaks my interest. But I won't pursue anything because I don't feel ready for that. Might not be the right call, but it is a choice I am comfortable with. I also want to get my life more organized than it is right now. But the funny thing with that is the fact that I never know what will happen tomorrow. I could talk to a woman that takes my breath away. I always remember a friend telling me that love comes walking in when you least expect it. I think this to be true.


Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/03/09 09:02 PM

I always remember a friend telling me that love comes walking in when you least expect it. I think this to be true.




I think this is true also. flowerforyou

Gator76's photo
Tue 11/03/09 09:08 PM
Love is in the air...we shall see. :heart:

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/03/09 09:11 PM

Love is in the air...we shall see. :heart:


Love is always in the air. It's getting it to sit down and stay a while that's the problem. :tongue:

Goofball73's photo
Tue 11/03/09 09:14 PM


I always remember a friend telling me that love comes walking in when you least expect it. I think this to be true.




I think this is true also. flowerforyou


Ruth.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 11/03/09 09:17 PM



I always remember a friend telling me that love comes walking in when you least expect it. I think this to be true.




I think this is true also. flowerforyou


Ruth.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


waving flowerforyou

thunderstruck60's photo
Tue 11/03/09 09:35 PM
i honestly believe i am still single because girls don't get me. i'm either too sarcastic, too crazy, too nice, too much of a jerk, too shy, too rambunctious, etc. it would make my day if a girl just said to me, "you make me happy no matter what u r up to!" waitin for the day. plus i live in a different country, by that meaning the ks/co line where there r less than 200 ppl per town.

Goofball73's photo
Tue 11/03/09 09:38 PM
It's because I am a manwhore too. :tongue: laugh laugh laugh

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