Topic: Where am I going with this relationship?
bluebird121's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:44 PM
Edited by bluebird121 on Wed 11/18/09 06:47 PM
I am Scottish. I left a good house I lost a lot.. my husband( our divorce is almost through).. my daughter does not talk to me now ..but I love this guy.. but I do not think he loves me ..
I looked in his PC.. in the history bit and there was lots of lady stuff like chat rooms or photos.
He has been in the Russian one I know as I looks in there and there was his name.
I have lived here for 18months..but am I wasting my life..
oh he is younger than me .. he is only 43.. but I feel as if we are equal.. but does he ?
I am in the process of staying here..I love the folk and have a few friends I met at the beach and we all put the world to rights. but do I have any future with him..?I must add that I caught him on the net chatting to this female..a few months ago.. He could not see what was wrong and accused me of not trusting him. and then he deleted all his mates as well as her......he could not see the harm in it...Am I just being silly or is he still thinking he is single.. advice please.

ledi180's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:51 PM
If you do not trust him and don't think you can then you're wasting your time. If you stay with him and do not trust him you are setting yourself up to be miserable. Work on the relationship with your daughter first. That, in my opinion, is BY FAR more important than this guy you think is cheating.

Best of luckflowerforyou

wannacuddlewthme's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:52 PM
Sneeking is never ever good..Take their word

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:52 PM
Hummm let me get this straight you are upset with him being on the internet talking to women. But then you are as well on the internet and have it on your profile to contact you for not only your e-mail but your number as well...... Sorry something funny with this picture and way of thinking.

It is hard to call the kettle black if in fact the other may be guilty of the same thing..... JMO

artman48's photo
Wed 11/18/09 06:58 PM
I am easily lost----ya lost me???

no photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:21 PM

Hummm let me get this straight you are upset with him being on the internet talking to women. But then you are as well on the internet and have it on your profile to contact you for not only your e-mail but your number as well...... Sorry something funny with this picture and way of thinking.

It is hard to call the kettle black if in fact the other may be guilty of the same thing..... JMO


I have to agree with what she has said.

what
Why do you complain,cause you seek what you ask for?

catseyes1's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:33 PM

I am Scottish. I left a good house I lost a lot.. my husband( our divorce is almost through).. my daughter does not talk to me now ..but I love this guy.. but I do not think he loves me ..
I looked in his PC.. in the history bit and there was lots of lady stuff like chat rooms or photos.
He has been in the Russian one I know as I looks in there and there was his name.
I have lived here for 18months..but am I wasting my life..
oh he is younger than me .. he is only 43.. but I feel as if we are equal.. but does he ?
I am in the process of staying here..I love the folk and have a few friends I met at the beach and we all put the world to rights. but do I have any future with him..?I must add that I caught him on the net chatting to this female..a few months ago.. He could not see what was wrong and accused me of not trusting him. and then he deleted all his mates as well as her......he could not see the harm in it...Am I just being silly or is he still thinking he is single.. advice please.


If you are moaning and groaning about him being on the internet talking to other women, why are you on here complaining about it and you get upset with him?

artman48's photo
Wed 11/18/09 07:35 PM
Funny thing--You don't look Scottish--Most don't have teeth I think??sad