Topic: Advice for the Newbies - part 4
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Sun 10/07/12 01:19 AM
Here! Here!

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Sun 10/07/12 01:24 AM
I gotta tell ya man. The answer is in your post. If you are pursuing finding someone that is why you aren't. Think of it like a muscle that you are tensing. Sometimes you just need to let it happen and relax. Don't look. Don't care. Don't fake. Just shine, bro. Focus on your own path and the one that is focusing on their path shall cross over into yours like two strangers bumping into each other on the street. Otherwise, the "odds" will stick you in the corner... a very dimly lit corner. I'm just saying. Don't try so hard and it'll come to ya.

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Sun 10/07/12 01:30 AM

As a new site user I have a question, at this time I'm only able to use
The site from my IPhone, I have been trying to figure out how to upload
a picture, but haven't able to figure out how .. Or if I even can.
Can anyone help me ???

Mona:-)


Can't you go into the My Account settings or link?

silversgt's photo
Fri 11/23/12 01:48 AM
Hi, newbie here. Really glad for this site! Others are horrible to navigate, yours is very clean and quick. Thanks.
waving

metalwing's photo
Fri 11/23/12 06:29 AM

Kojack's advice:


I have commented to the individuals, but it hasn t helped, or more have
come along, so i decided to make a thread just for them.

1)Don t ask for nude pix or to cyber or who wants to sex me

2) talk in english and in complete sentences

3)Respect is expected at all times

4)If you disregard the above, 2 things will happen. first the ladies will chew you up and spit you out, and 2nd the gentlemen of the site will defend the honor of these ladies.

5) Do post often and have fun, get to know them and if you find one you like and she s single then email , IM, go and meet her then after a period of time greater then 3 days... more like months later if you want provocative pics ask her privately not in forums as you are seen as a pig and disgrace yourself and make them insecure if they are shy.


I guarentee if you take my advice, you will meet somone alot faster.



:cry: I'm seen as a pig!!!!!tears

CalmingTranquility's photo
Wed 01/16/13 07:17 AM
good tips even though i hope most of them would go without saying :)

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Sat 01/19/13 08:59 AM
Can somebody please tell me how the friends part of this site works. I just received my first friend request and I accepted it but now not sure if I should have or not because I do not know if it means that they can only contact me on this site alone or elsewhere and can he see who my friends are on other sites such as facebook, etc.

Thank you for any help on this matter!

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Mon 01/21/13 07:45 PM


Hey all, just joined yesterday. Not sure what to expect but I'm always optimistic... Seems like a great group though I'm sure I havent seen the half.. Best wishes to all though. Hope you find what ur lookin for!

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Wed 06/05/13 04:53 PM
new here so if i block traffic just go around lol

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Wed 06/05/13 05:38 PM
so true

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Mon 06/10/13 11:48 PM
Edited by bearingtree on Mon 06/10/13 11:51 PM
Umm totally new here. Just bored sometimes and looking to make friends. Call me a provocative intellectual type who is serially (sp?) unfulfilled intellectually. Help my cup runith over people! Talk to me!! Later. Robert

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Thu 07/18/13 12:02 AM
Oh... So use the forums ok...

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Sun 08/04/13 10:42 AM
Hi just a hello to introduce myself

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Sun 12/01/13 11:31 PM
Hello! Newbie here. Can I ask for help? I don't know how to put image/pictures on my profile. ;)

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Tue 12/10/13 08:29 PM
Thanks for the info!

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Tue 12/10/13 09:15 PM
I'm new here and just wanted to say hello.
So far I've been here for about five minutes, and already like it better than POF or OK Stupid, sorry.. Cupid.

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Tue 12/10/13 10:17 PM
'Sup, people. I'm new here and thought I'd say hi. I'm not usually one for dating sights, but carpe diem and all that fun stuff.

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Tue 12/10/13 10:42 PM
looking forward on meeting more friends here..:smile:

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Tue 12/10/13 10:58 PM
littleprincesz.. go to your profile, in photo click add photo and select a file from folder, gallery if your using phone. :smile:

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Wed 12/11/13 12:17 PM
4)If you disregard the above, 2 things will happen. first the ladies will chew you up and spit you out, and 2nd the gentlemen of the site will defend the honor of these ladies.

lol defend my honor.