my big big package

yeah..that's what I'm talking about...I want a jerk!

everything matters, not using male "trump card",(i'm the man type of thing) for that automatically assumes you need to control.... what he says, what he does, if he's respectful, how he carries himself, how confident he is, how his hygiene is, and smells good. what effort he makes to look the best he can. mystery does play a role into it, but not games. always tell the truth, and don't suck up, but be a friend, be strong, be romantic, but not sappy, and keep things interesting always, but appropriate for the occasion, not too many suprizes, and relax, be easy-going, and be the best of who you can be without ego problems, and always work on being comfortable with who you are.... not advice by any means, but a fraction of humbling life experience, if one may.......good luck! it takes a lifetime to perfect, and by the time you're ready, you're too old!!! have fun!!!

I personaly look for a guy thats the total package.In my eyes that is:
Someone with a great personality( Looks fade with time), though it cant hurt to be handsome, someone how is funny ( a guy with a great sence of humor melts my heart everytime), someone who is smart and knows what he wants in life. Also someone who has somewhat the same interrestes as me though not all the same interrests otherwise it could get boring.

Being shy isnt a bad thing:-)

you read my mind. if you start out asking what you have to do to impress someone else, you probably wont be attracting people who really like YOU. Just be yourself, be honest about what you want and what you have to offer,, and let nature take its course.