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Topic: How can you trust what the guys on here say it true
eeyor's photo
Wed 12/16/09 02:58 PM
i meet a guy on this site he seemed nice and treats me good. but i just found out he is on here still trying to find someone. we have been dating for two months now. i am a good honest person. so am i just stupid to belive what a man says or what. i am wondering if i should just give up.

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:00 PM
THAT guy seems like a problem

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Wed 12/16/09 03:00 PM
Listen.....just trust me,I know what I'm doin'...bigsmile

eeyor's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:00 PM
how do you mean

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Wed 12/16/09 03:02 PM
are you two in a committed relationship? i mean, i know that you say that you two have been going out for 2 months but does he feel the same way as you? i guess...just ask him point blank if he is wanting to be with you and only you. if he gives you a non clear answer...then you will have your answer.

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Wed 12/16/09 03:02 PM
but i do wish you the best...

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Wed 12/16/09 03:03 PM

how do you mean




You can just call me Master Pooh.....nuff said...

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Wed 12/16/09 03:04 PM
Have you discussed being exclusive? Maybe he thinks that since you've only been dating for 2 months, you're not serious yet? If I were you I'd ask him, "hey, I'm just wondering if you'd like to be exclusive, or do you want to date other people?" Depending on his answer, you'll know what you need to do.

Btw, not all men lie, and this one doesn't have to be lying, it could just be a breakdown in communication, which is very, very, important in any relationship. Good luck to you!flowerforyou

eeyor's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:04 PM
he told me i could trust him and he cared about me. he texts me everyday or calls me he is confusing me

markc48's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:06 PM
Dating and relationship are far apart.

4everw8n's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:06 PM

are you two in a committed relationship? i mean, i know that you say that you two have been going out for 2 months but does he feel the same way as you? i guess...just ask him point blank if he is wanting to be with you and only you. if he gives you a non clear answer...then you will have your answer.
flowerforyou

I completely agree with this guy...I recently became involved with someone and changed my profile from "looking for a relationship" to "looking for friendship". If your boyfriend is committed to you, he might think to do the same.

hotchick420's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:07 PM
Mostly all the guys on here are fukin losers that are married or in a relationship they just wana mess wit our minds. well some are. but yea i wouldnt ****ing trust them intill u meet someone thats sweet.

eeyor's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:08 PM
thanks for the advise and we have talk about a relationship and he ask me what i want to prove he was devoted to me he offer to get me a ring i said not just he honest to me but he is writing my girlfriend now trying to pick her up

ledi180's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:09 PM
Ummmmmm WOW!

Anywho, you need to talk to him - communicate - ask questions - what he wants, tell him what you want. It has nothing to do with guys on HERE. It's real life. Good luck!!!!!!!!flowerforyou


Mostly all the guys on here are fukin losers that are married or in a relationship they just wana mess wit our minds. well some are. but yea i wouldnt ****ing trust them intill u meet someone thats sweet.

newarkjw's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:09 PM

Mostly all the guys on here are fukin losers that are married or in a relationship they just wana mess wit our minds. well some are. but yea i wouldnt ****ing trust them intill u meet someone thats sweet.


Sounds like you have it all figured out.........smokin

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Wed 12/16/09 03:10 PM
Also, OP, your profile says you're looking for a man for dating. If you're already dating the person you've mentioned in your thread, you might want to change your status to looking for friends. Or are you already over your current relationship and seeking a new one?what

eeyor's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:11 PM
yes maybe he should he told me he talk to other girls on the site but they were just friends. can i belive him

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Wed 12/16/09 03:11 PM

Mostly all the guys on here are fukin losers that are married or in a relationship they just wana mess wit our minds. well some are. but yea i wouldnt ****ing trust them intill u meet someone thats sweet.


Glad I've never met any of those guys then.laugh

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Wed 12/16/09 03:11 PM
When the b.s. gets too thick I go to the serious hardware & then ask questions later.But hey! that's just me.laugh p.s.I treat trust the same as respect.They are earned & not freely handed out.This applies in IRL or on-line.Godspeed!Cy;)

ledi180's photo
Wed 12/16/09 03:11 PM
19 year olds usually do have it all figured out bigsmile

OP, if I were you I'd end it right now - it does not seem to be heading in a good direction. If you can not trust him then nothing good will come of the relationship.

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