Ding, ding, ding. I think we have a winner.


Dump him!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you all for your thoughts on this. First of all, NO he is not married, never was. He is not an addict or alcoholic, but yes all the "ISM"s are there. Since I grew up in an alocholic family, I do know all about the isms.They are the gifts that keep on giving your whole life. I am not the one that said anything about Us being in a relationship, he did, and as for the physical part, we were not there yet. I do see that he has a less mature attitude towards relationships, kinda of reminds me of the guys I knew back in my 20's. You know, the kind that they will see the girl only if all the other guys are too busy. Thanks again.

Same thing I was thinking.

Also, there is an old saying that I use ALL the time: "Go with your gut."

9 times out of 10, it will lead you in the right direction.

The fact that you are posting this on the internet, with so many questions about him, your relationship, etc., should tell you, there is a BIG problem.

It is not your job, or is it probably in your best interest, to figure it out.

Move on. If he calls, tell him an old boyfriend showed up in your life and you are getting back together with him. You guys haven't been physical yet, in your own words, so no big deal.