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What you are talking about in called "pre-selection" or the "copy-cat effect." It's been well documented among many species included humans. It's sort of lazy if you think about it. A female sees a male with a mate and assumes he must have something good going for him otherwise she wouldn't be with him. The more attractive the woman, the more "value" the man must have.
That's why it's so much easier to attract a new girlfriend when you already have a girlfriend. Also, you can date a less attractive woman for a while and use her to attract and better looking one. It's a sort of glitch in female evolutionary programming that can be taken advantage of. Try going out sometime with a female friend and talking to other women. They will open up easier and be warmer and friendlier. |
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Edited by
wux
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Wed 12/30/09 06:45 PM
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Try going out sometime with a female friend and talking to other women. It seems as a pre-requisite for the plan to have a woman. Aye, there is the rub. If I could get a female friend to go out with, I would not use her as a bait, but have her as a girlfriend, with all rights, privileges and duties of the position. But to get her, I need a woman friend to go out with? But if had THAT friend, I would use HER. It seems like a never-ending vicious circle that can't get off the ground and get rooling. Drat, I'm drooling again. |
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Okay, so you go out alone. You walk up to an attractive women, you say hello, you introduce yourself and you shake hands, start a conversation. Do this with 50 different women and a couple will like you enough to give you their phone numbers. Call them in a day or so and invite them on a date. If one says yes take her out. Don't spend too much money on her. $40-$50 is plenty. Take her someplace where you can both talk and get to know one another. Not a movie or a loud bar. Just hang out and vibe. Don't invest too much in the interaction. You are just getting to know her. Have fun! Women like men that are fun.
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all the "nice guys" are married
 
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This topic is not named correctly.... it should be named exploiting human nature
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What you are talking about in called "pre-selection" or the "copy-cat effect." It's been well documented among many species included humans. It's sort of lazy if you think about it. A female sees a male with a mate and assumes he must have something good going for him otherwise she wouldn't be with him. The more attractive the woman, the more "value" the man must have. That's why it's so much easier to attract a new girlfriend when you already have a girlfriend. Also, you can date a less attractive woman for a while and use her to attract and better looking one. It's a sort of glitch in female evolutionary programming that can be taken advantage of. Try going out sometime with a female friend and talking to other women. They will open up easier and be warmer and friendlier. |
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