I can echo what some of the others are saying... if there isn't the connection to move forward... well it's just not there.

Keep doing your own self-improvements and reflections (try some meditation, you might see something you are missing)... it sounds like you are doing the dating thing right... you are out there and trying to work it.

It will come when everything in the universe is aligned for it!

if it was easy everyone could do it

better I think to be on your own and comfy in your own skin that to be with the wrong person just for the sake of having someone

for a guy to be worth a good lookin tough smart girl like you is gonna take a helluva man and they are few and far between

just wait patiently and try not to settle

First of all, if you say you've been looking for someone to date, perhaps make your profile so that it corresponds to that. You state you are looking for friendship.


Now I'm not meaning to be harsh with what I am going to type next, I am just stating what I read in your profile and what could be your problem with getting into a relationship.

It says you have MS. You are going to have to meet someone who would be okay with that. Next you state you are overweight. Again, you are going to have to find someone who is okay with that. Put them together, that's a few strikes against you from the get go. Hopefully, you find a man that will be understanding.

Even people who do not have these things, find it difficult to date. And if it's been that long since you've really dated someone, you might want to look at the obvious.

You seem like a very kind woman and I wish you the best.