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I may be old fashion but if looking hasn't worked yet how about just letting friendships build and if something sparks from that then you guys have one of the biggest humps compleated which is comunication.. theres someone for everyone. You will know her when you meet her.hugs! This makes sense, except I'm not good at making friends. I guess what I've been told before, and its probably true..that I've put up such a tall and thick wall around me. And people notice that. And I'm stuck between wanting to tear it down, and stay inside in the safety. But yes. It does help to talk about it. After going back and reading the other post and seeing this statement you made, you have pretty much summed it up right here. People build walls in order not to get hurt again it takes a big hammer & chisel in order for one on the outside looking in to start taking small pieces of it down. In order for that wall to come crumbling down the one within must want it to happen. Therefore take the time and look within at what the reasons are you have built that wall. Only you can make that wall come completely down. Sure you may get hurt again it is a chance that one has to take. But I assure you that when you find the right one and that wall is down and you can give all it will be well worth it. One must be able to be ready themselves for you may be the one that is actually the reason that things do not go any farther then they do without even realizing it. |
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I came to a conclusion, that a man either has to be born to a rich family; become rich out of a fortunate job or event; rob a bank successfully and then you choose the women, anytime, anywhere, anyhow, anyone, not the women choose you anymore.
 You could be the nastiest, ugliest, sadistic SOB in the world, women will stick around, regardless of those. |
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Edited by
Atlantis75
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Mon 01/25/10 03:35 PM
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Jesus..what happened there? the forum got completely stuck on me.
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