I just heard tonight from someone(we hung out together after she broke up with her boyfriend of 3 years and I had left my wife. It lasted about 3 months nothing serious. She is now getting married June and I'm happy for her. One of her fiances friends just asked me if I was the one who dated her. Now the only problem I have with that is we never dated. Wow makes me wonder if she wanted more and I missed the signs. Or what ? I don't know. When he said that to me it kinda put me in a wierd situation.

Did you want to date her? Why did it put you in a weird situation?

how is this a weird situation?

you said she is getting married in June right? case closed...just because you think you may have missed some signs does not give you the right to interfere in her life now.

We were just friends. Nothing serious.
Now hearing she said that it kinda surprised me.
Yes I would have wanted more with her but at the time it just wasn't right.

Sounds like she felt it was dating ..to some degree.

I'm in no way interfering with her life. I'm friends with her and her fiance.
It was just wierd hearing one of his friends asking me that tonight.

just because he said that, doesn't mean you missed any signs. And if you did, to late now.

ok, sorry
i read it as though you were now regretting "not" dating her and therefore may now pursue her.

Or he could have been talking about someone else, if you guys were just friends, nothing serious, maybe she was dating someone else at the same time?

Guess maybe I should have worded it better. When we were "hanging out" It never was called dating between us. Now hearing that it made me wonder if she wanted more with me.