Topic: hey
mike31's photo
Sun 03/28/10 10:51 PM
i been hear for a while i love this site but i hate when people dont say nothing to your im i think its rude or maybe the people are lazy and just click a button i know it happen to a few people out there if you dont want to talk say it thats all

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Sun 03/28/10 10:53 PM
Mike, I find people talk in the forums more. To be honest, I have my IM turned off because people I didn't know would IM me and I really didn't know what to say. Maybe if you join the forums you would get to know people like I did. flowerforyou

Jtevans's photo
Sun 03/28/10 10:55 PM
it's always best to send them an email first :smile:

Shasta1's photo
Sun 03/28/10 11:06 PM
For awhile people (men) were Im me. No one I knew, like answering the phone, they must have a wrong number. The only other place I talk to strangers besides in the forums is the grocery store line.I don't think alot of people are crazy about it either, takes way too long.

Tessa02's photo
Sun 03/28/10 11:17 PM
I generally don't spend a lot of time chatting with anyone here or anywhere else. When you chat people tend to ask too many questions that I don't feel comfortable answering. I prefer to get to know others through their threads & replies on the forum.

thewaterbearer's photo
Sun 03/28/10 11:20 PM
Spending time chatting on the forums is alot of fun I really don't care for instant messaging

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 03/28/10 11:28 PM
my im's are off as well.. Not only are they annoying going off over and over with people you don't know but they don't always work... They also interfere with forum posting when you're being im'ed constantly..

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Sun 03/28/10 11:32 PM
I draw in a specific kind of man.
The pervert.

which is why my Im's are off.
I actually like to Im, so it's a shame.

but forums are nice too. :)