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Topic: Got some input?
Alloguvnah's photo
Sun 04/18/10 06:16 AM


yeah there is no reconciling. we both pretty much set.
Lil tip to anyone in Louisiana, Arkansas, and Arizona,
don't engage in a Covenant Marriage! Just takes too
damn long LOLfrustrated

This Covenant Marriage.
Is that a religious thing?

supposed to be, we only did it to save some money cuz we knew a pastor who would do it for free, but he only does covenant

Shelly23's photo
Sun 04/18/10 09:15 AM
I'm going thru the same thing right now.
I'm just having a good time, meeting new people,hanging out and if I meet someone that I really connect with that's cool.
Whatever happens, happens.

skydancingA's photo
Sun 04/18/10 09:25 AM



yeah there is no reconciling. we both pretty much set.
Lil tip to anyone in Louisiana, Arkansas, and Arizona,
don't engage in a Covenant Marriage! Just takes too
damn long LOLfrustrated

This Covenant Marriage.
Is that a religious thing?

supposed to be, we only did it to save some money cuz we knew a pastor who would do it for free, but he only does covenant

Wow.
And it is a two year release plan?
You know.
I think it is all about "intent."
If your intentions are admirable, and you are
completely honest, as I think you have been here,
go for it, life is short, good time to look around...
the gal just above me here looks cute, and in your same sitch..
I'm just saying :-)

no photo
Sun 04/18/10 09:36 AM
New friends are fine. However, I would not pursue anything more until the divorce is final.

msmyka's photo
Sun 04/18/10 09:42 AM
I've dated a few guys who weren't completely divorced yet and it put a lot of strain on ME. It wasn't a matter of being worried they would go back to their ex, but someone who is in the process of divorce has a lot on their plate. It's emotionally consuming and trying to be there for your guy while hes still woman hating because of his ex is somewhat counter productive.

Also if there are kids involved it brings a whole new level of complications for anyone you date. I honestly wouldn't recommend anything more than friendships right now. Be careful because your own emotions will deceive you at a time like this. A woman who is supportive of you during this time can quickly turn into a love interest even if that is not your intent.

Alloguvnah's photo
Sun 04/18/10 09:52 AM
everyones got some good points. as for the woman hating thing that's a big no. i don't hate women. not even my ex oddly enough. it's a level of maturity i maintain in that aspect i find.

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