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Topic: It baffles me...
buttons's photo
Mon 06/21/10 02:53 PM


For those of you who are online to find a intimate encounter or who have in the past. I just wonder since it is something so easy to get with no strings attached why do you have to go online to find that? I ask this because i have never gone online to look for that nor have I in person but have been approached many times for that in person.and I dont act like that is something i am looking for either..Plain and simple.. If that is something I was looking for I would not waste my time doing it online... would be much easier in person to do.Pretty sure too that I could have my pick and could find a new one eveyrday if i wanted to..
So why do people do this online?


The first thing that popped into my head was they're married or in some kind of committed relationship, and lookin for a little somethin' on the side, or because of the animity, for whatever reason, of pursuing this on-line rather than in their own 'home town', where they work and know people and word can spread.
yeah that would make perfect sense to me..

AmandaRJ's photo
Mon 06/21/10 06:25 PM
As a woman, i feel disrespected and disgusted by those people, go somewhere especialy designed for it. The ones that hit you with sex inuendos from the start don't bother me. You just tell them to piss off. Is the lieing bastards that build a relationnship with you to get sex ,cyber or otherwise, and once they get you all love sick and doing whatever, that really piss me off. Is just cruel and un-necessary, just find someone that is looking for the same thing. Some of us actually are looking for love, companionship and friendship. I hate having my time wasted and have my feelings played.

Monier's photo
Mon 06/21/10 07:40 PM

For those of you who are online to find a intimate encounter or who have in the past. I just wonder since it is something so easy to get with no strings attached why do you have to go online to find that? I ask this because i have never gone online to look for that nor have I in person but have been approached many times for that in person.and I dont act like that is something i am looking for either..Plain and simple.. If that is something I was looking for I would not waste my time doing it online... would be much easier in person to do.Pretty sure too that I could have my pick and could find a new one eveyrday if i wanted to..
So why do people do this online?


lack of self-esteem and hoping somebody else has less

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Mon 06/21/10 07:51 PM
People wanna be "secretive" about it. No more of this walking into a bar/club and doing the leg work to get the booty. Now, you log on and look for some azz. It's probably more aggrevating, but people seem to like it for its' "supposed" secrecy. Then again, saying that you are "Looking for an Intimate Encounter" does kind of ruin the secrecy.laugh

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