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It doesn't matter how things "should" be. You have to deal with the reality of the situation. Everyone is different and every relationship is different. Just work with what you've got.
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So if we have this, why can't we have that? So what your saying is, we take this and add that? Do you think it would work? I don't see why we can't take this and just add that...... :~) :~)  No calls the next day and sleeping over is optional.... |
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My best friend is a woman. And, any woman that dates me will have to accept that my best friend is a big part of my life. Just like I would have to accept any woman having a dude for a best friend. I have that same situation here. Alot of women don't quite understand it, and sometime even suggest there's more going on, and they don't get the time of day from me after that. A 16 year old friendship will win every time 
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Yea well im F* pissed my best friend in the world can't call me back in 5 days yea..i couldn't tell you if the guy was dead (just being real)
so you people that said i guess your friendship is like a relationship.. never really looked at it like that but guess your right .. |
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Should they ruin friendships? SHOULD they? NO Do they? Unfortunately, yes 
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almost all my close friends..got there summer flings goin on.... and they can't even hit a guy back .. owell  Bros before Ho's Sisters before misters
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Bros before Ho's Sisters before misters O O O .. is that why you can't even call a guy back  
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Yea well im F* pissed my best friend in the world can't call me back in 5 days yea..i couldn't tell you if the guy was dead (just being real) so you people that said i guess your friendship is like a relationship.. never really looked at it like that but guess your right .. I understand what you are saying. Same thing happened to me. The only time I saw or heard from my best friend was when she was fighting with her "boyfriend." We were very close friends and when I came over to her house and he was there he treated me like a guest or a third wheel. It was disgusting, because behind his back she railed on him as being a control freak. Our friendship is over now. |
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My friends are important to me. My ex was my friend before we fell in love....She thought that after I divorced, we would not be friends.....That does not hold true with my friends. Once a friend always a friend.....I just said goodnight to my ex and told her to tell her boyfriend, whom I've met to go easy on her tonight....All of my friends are near and dear.....A new relation would have to accept that, just the way it is.....
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It shouldn't. Any friend who would get upset because you spend less time with them, since you got into a relationship is not a real friend. You may also want to understand them, if they are polite, then it's because they might not want to disturb, but I fail to see a logic here..since a friend is a friend and if he or she gets jealous or upset about me getting into a relationship, then he is better off not being my friend anymore. I had a friend, I dated his ex girlfriend..and yet he couldn't care less...he said whatever floats my boat and he warned me...I should have listened to him though..since she became an ex to me as well, just as he warned me about her. i agree like always... that is why i seek out single friends for now... i know i am guilty .. am i jealous hell no! am i happy for them of course! most all my friends are married... i tend to be the 5th wheel or 3rd wheel.. though i know they love me i do know they would be around me more if i was a couple.. but that just isnt happening for now.. and sure arent gonna settle to look happy to be there either.. life goes on.. maybe i have found my place or maybe i havent.. till then.. nothing wrong to reaching out to others till then or even after.. just cause all my friends are taken or married doesnt mean i have to be... maybe i am like them in that way and just havent found the right person..
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