Topic: how am I doing?
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Thu 08/05/10 04:30 PM
Hello I,ve been a member for about a week now and havnt had that much luck.what am I doing wrong.

hmlover's photo
Thu 08/05/10 04:31 PM
Edited by hmlover on Thu 08/05/10 04:33 PM
Running out of patience...laugh Rome wasn't built in a day!

Having said that... get some more pics, one isn't going to do it, and put some more info in your bio, what you like, what you don't (less of this), and what kind of person you're seeking.

Then, participate in the forums for a few weeks. You'll find that you're more popular than you might think!

tanyaann's photo
Thu 08/05/10 04:40 PM

Running out of patience...laugh Rome wasn't built in a day!

Having said that... get some more pics, one isn't going to do it, and put some more info in your bio, what you like, what you don't (less of this), and what kind of person you're seeking.

Then, participate in the forums for a few weeks. You'll find that you're more popular than you might think!


what he said.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Thu 08/05/10 04:41 PM
Try any other site but this one for dating lol.

Then again, some people have more luck then others do. It very from person to person.

Good luck.

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Thu 08/05/10 05:11 PM
Definitely a couple more pictures, and as these gentlemen have said- you should list a few more interests. You're a handsome guy, you just need to let us know more about you. :] Good luck!

MelodyGirl's photo
Thu 08/05/10 06:14 PM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Thu 08/05/10 06:16 PM

Try any other site but this one for dating lol.

Then again, some people have more luck then others do. It very from person to person.

Good luck.


Just because you haven’t had as much luck doesn’t mean you should discourage new members.

The site works for those who are proactive; load a few good pix, and create an interesting profile. Once that is done, participate in the forums rather than simply trolling profiles – and sitting back waiting for results.

To the OP: I agree with what the others have said. Load better, clearer pix and add something to your profile.

Also, be patient! It took me 3 months to find a member I was interestd in meeting and then another 2 months before we met. Don't jump into online dating; use common sense.

Welcome drinker

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Thu 08/05/10 06:29 PM
Edited by Johncenawlife316 on Thu 08/05/10 06:31 PM


Try any other site but this one for dating lol.

Then again, some people have more luck then others do. It very from person to person.

Good luck.


Just because you haven’t had as much luck doesn’t mean you should discourage new members.

The site works for those who are proactive; load a few good pix, and create an interesting profile. Once that is done, participate in the forums rather than simply trolling profiles – and sitting back waiting for results.

To the OP: I agree with what the others have said. Load better, clearer pix and add something to your profile.

Also, be patient! It took me 3 months to find a member I was interestd in meeting and then another 2 months before we met. Don't jump into online dating; use common sense.

Welcome drinker



If I was being discourage to any new members then for that I am sorry but I don't believe I was. I just said some people had more luck vs others, I wasn't misleading any one or body by that. Also every body has there own views etc.

I have participate in forums before, it's not my cup of tea so to speak. I also do not go around trolling peoples profiles night and day or even day and night whatever the case is.

Also my comment about trying any other dating site but this one was just a joke, if you didn't get that then I'm sorry for that. I can understand how that might not be too funny to some people and to others they might get it.