Topic: looking for good man that doesn't judge
BeckyO1987's photo
Fri 08/06/10 08:59 AM
Hi my name is Becky and I am looking for a man who is nice, honest, goal oriented, and will judge me on my personality and not on my looks. Who also likes kids and wants to have some one day. just read my profile for more or message me.

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Fri 08/06/10 09:02 AM
welcome and best wishesflowerforyou

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Fri 08/06/10 09:13 AM
Hello and Welcome!! In my opinion U are a very pretty lady!!flowerforyou

MelodyGirl's photo
Fri 08/06/10 11:01 AM
Edited by MelodyGirl on Fri 08/06/10 11:02 AM
You want him to be selectively judgmental?

I agree people should embrace “the whole package”. The foundation of acceptance shouldn’t be based on judging a person - especially on certain terms (judge the inside but not the outside or visa versa) – but rather accepting a person for everything they are – warts and all.

I hope you find that special someone and welcome to Mingle drinker

PATSFAN's photo
Fri 08/06/10 11:02 AM
So looks don't matter to you????

mightymoe's photo
Fri 08/06/10 11:04 AM
i wouldn't mind being a judge in a wet t-shirt contest, or miss world nude contest. i think would be very judgmental then.
love

Cinders56's photo
Sun 08/08/10 05:20 PM
Becky my name is Cindy and I just had to post to you. Your quite pretty. We are all beautiful inside. Screw them if they can't see the beauty beyond.. Take care girlie...Cinders56

BeckyO1987's photo
Sun 08/08/10 06:39 PM

Becky my name is Cindy and I just had to post to you. Your quite pretty. We are all beautiful inside. Screw them if they can't see the beauty beyond.. Take care girlie...Cinders56


Thanks so much that means a lot to me. an you are righ screw them if they can't see the beauty beyond.

mightymoe's photo
Sun 08/08/10 06:59 PM


Becky my name is Cindy and I just had to post to you. Your quite pretty. We are all beautiful inside. Screw them if they can't see the beauty beyond.. Take care girlie...Cinders56


Thanks so much that means a lot to me. an you are righ screw them if they can't see the beauty beyond.

yea screw um....

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 08/08/10 07:48 PM
You be you Becky ... and let them be them. If you find your way together then it is a wonderful thing.

Don't judge them if they aren't attracted to you. I am sure that there are many who are not attractive to you too. It is always a selection thing and that is okay.

It isn't you ... it isn't them ... everyone is wonderful and beautiful in their way. We aren't all beautiful together though.

Just be honest and hopefully they will be too. Build from there without a bunch of expectations clogging up the process.

All the best to you and welcome! flowerforyou

BeckyO1987's photo
Mon 08/09/10 07:24 AM

You be you Becky ... and let them be them. If you find your way together then it is a wonderful thing.

Don't judge them if they aren't attracted to you. I am sure that there are many who are not attractive to you too. It is always a selection thing and that is okay.

It isn't you ... it isn't them ... everyone is wonderful and beautiful in their way. We aren't all beautiful together though.

Just be honest and hopefully they will be too. Build from there without a bunch of expectations clogging up the process.

All the best to you and welcome! flowerforyou


Thanks and what you said is very insightful and really makes a point I wish every one could read that cause that is just amazing.

RajBhadresa's photo
Mon 08/09/10 12:32 PM
Hieee....How r u..?

RainbowTrout's photo
Mon 08/09/10 12:39 PM
Sorry for judging on you looks but you look fine to me.:smile:

mightymoe's photo
Mon 08/09/10 12:42 PM


You be you Becky ... and let them be them. If you find your way together then it is a wonderful thing.

Don't judge them if they aren't attracted to you. I am sure that there are many who are not attractive to you too. It is always a selection thing and that is okay.

It isn't you ... it isn't them ... everyone is wonderful and beautiful in their way. We aren't all beautiful together though.

Just be honest and hopefully they will be too. Build from there without a bunch of expectations clogging up the process.

All the best to you and welcome! flowerforyou


Thanks and what you said is very insightful and really makes a point I wish every one could read that cause that is just amazing.


yea, and screw 'um...