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Topic: rude or not
bigojockey's photo
Sun 09/12/10 04:55 PM
if someone takes the time to email you when you are asking people to respond to your profile,it seems to me the least you could do is to answer them in some sort or fashion.i realize that you don,t want to hurt peoples feelings but i believe that most people would rather you be honest with them than be ignored.i know i would but i may be in the minority.what do you think,is it rude to not respond at all.

yellowrose10's photo
Sun 09/12/10 04:56 PM
rude or not....no answer is an answer....correct?

I TRY to answer all emails....but that is just me.

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/12/10 05:07 PM
I answer some, but not all. I don't answer "hey baby", "you're cute, wanna chat?" and "you're hot" emails.

Riding_Dubz's photo
Sun 09/12/10 05:10 PM
Edited by Riding_Dubz on Sun 09/12/10 05:10 PM
I ignore people all the time........

not being rude.....but not tryin to lead anyone on....

but i always return emails from my friends here on mingle..flowerforyou drinker

welcome and good luck..

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Sun 09/12/10 05:40 PM

I answer some, but not all. I don't answer "hey baby", "you're cute, wanna chat?" and "you're hot" emails.
me either...oh wait...I don't get any emails like that frustrated

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Sun 09/12/10 05:47 PM

if someone takes the time to email you when you are asking people to respond to your profile,it seems to me the least you could do is to answer them in some sort or fashion.i realize that you don,t want to hurt peoples feelings but i believe that most people would rather you be honest with them than be ignored.i know i would but i may be in the minority.what do you think,is it rude to not respond at all.


I use to respond to all. That changed when some would then respond with insults and such. Rejection is not handle very well by many.

Don't take it personally, and just keep "fishing".

Best!happy

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/12/10 05:47 PM


I answer some, but not all. I don't answer "hey baby", "you're cute, wanna chat?" and "you're hot" emails.
me either...oh wait...I don't get any emails like that frustrated


Wellll....I don't either. ohwell

But, if I did, I would NOT answer them. rant

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Sun 09/12/10 05:49 PM



I answer some, but not all. I don't answer "hey baby", "you're cute, wanna chat?" and "you're hot" emails.
me either...oh wait...I don't get any emails like that frustrated


Wellll....I don't either. ohwell

But, if I did, I would NOT answer them. rant
well if you get anymore forward them to me bigsmile

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 09/12/10 05:55 PM




I answer some, but not all. I don't answer "hey baby", "you're cute, wanna chat?" and "you're hot" emails.
me either...oh wait...I don't get any emails like that frustrated


Wellll....I don't either. ohwell

But, if I did, I would NOT answer them. rant
well if you get anymore forward them to me bigsmile

:thumbsup: flowerforyou

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Sun 09/12/10 05:57 PM
I always see that as a quandary too. It seems really rude not to reply, especially if someone has taken the time to write a long message and they're polite. But there's always the fear that by replying you're showing an interest which may not be there, thus leaving you with the dilemma of having to say 'no' at some point!

But if anyone is crude in any way in their introductory message I don't bother replying at all.

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Sun 09/12/10 06:10 PM

if someone takes the time to email you when you are asking people to respond to your profile,it seems to me the least you could do is to answer them in some sort or fashion.i realize that you don,t want to hurt peoples feelings but i believe that most people would rather you be honest with them than be ignored.i know i would but i may be in the minority.what do you think,is it rude to not respond at all.
I agree I would much rather someone be honest with me then to just ignore me evryone has prefrences I tell guys that email me if I dont think we are a match I just expect the same courtesy I guess.

Goofball73's photo
Sun 09/12/10 07:11 PM
Send them a nice email that states........


Dear So and So,


Phuck Off!


Sincerely,

_____________



It will piss them off and make you feel good inside. AAhhhhhhhh!

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 09/12/10 07:15 PM
I tend to respond to everyone ... unless they say that I've been promised to them by God. Those I ignore.


you_dont_know_me's photo
Sun 09/12/10 07:23 PM

I tend to respond to everyone ... unless they say that I've been promised to them by God. Those I ignore.



do people really say that crap to you

Goofball73's photo
Sun 09/12/10 07:27 PM

I tend to respond to everyone ... unless they say that I've been promised to them by God. Those I ignore.




But what if they told you that you were promised to them by Satan?

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 09/12/10 07:31 PM
Edited by ArtGurl on Sun 09/12/10 07:39 PM


I tend to respond to everyone ... unless they say that I've been promised to them by God. Those I ignore.



do people really say that crap to you




Sadly ... yes ...

the worst was a year-long stalkerazzi incident that involved computer hacking and death threats...and I didn't know this person at all. He created a whole life in his own mind. There are some unstable people out there. ohwell




ArtGurl's photo
Sun 09/12/10 07:33 PM


I tend to respond to everyone ... unless they say that I've been promised to them by God. Those I ignore.




But what if they told you that you were promised to them by Satan?



:tongue: more fairy tales





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Sun 09/12/10 07:38 PM



I tend to respond to everyone ... unless they say that I've been promised to them by God. Those I ignore.



do people really say that crap to you




Sadly ... yes ...

the worst incident was a year-long stalkerazzi incident that involved computer hacking and death threats...and I didn't know this person at all. He created a whole life in his own mind. There are some unstable people out there. ohwell







i had a bad stalker so i know what ya mean by them

ArtGurl's photo
Sun 09/12/10 07:40 PM




I tend to respond to everyone ... unless they say that I've been promised to them by God. Those I ignore.



do people really say that crap to you




Sadly ... yes ...

the worst incident was a year-long stalkerazzi incident that involved computer hacking and death threats...and I didn't know this person at all. He created a whole life in his own mind. There are some unstable people out there. ohwell







i had a bad stalker so i know what ya mean by them



wasn't fun ... sorry you had to go through that weirdness too

Goofball73's photo
Sun 09/12/10 07:40 PM



I tend to respond to everyone ... unless they say that I've been promised to them by God. Those I ignore.




But what if they told you that you were promised to them by Satan?



:tongue: more fairy tales







Never doubt The Lord of Darknesses influence!

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