Topic: love at first site
ozman1887's photo
Thu 10/07/10 02:50 PM
Is their such thing as love at first site I think I have experinced it in the past but it could have been puppy dog love. Love is so complicated WHY? If u have any insite let me know

Gossipmpm's photo
Thu 10/07/10 02:53 PM
I guess it can happen.....i have heard of it happening......I need time.....ya know....to feel the man as a whole...then I fall in love...


I have been in lust at the mere sight of some men...for sure!:heart:

Dodo_David's photo
Thu 10/07/10 03:27 PM
Plenty of men have experienced love at first sight. Then they sobered up. :tongue:

ozman1887's photo
Thu 10/07/10 03:30 PM
Lol maby that's why I don't drink

no photo
Thu 10/07/10 03:40 PM

Is their such thing as love at first site I think I have experinced it in the past but it could have been puppy dog love. Love is so complicated WHY? If u have any insite let me know


Love is when you become addicted to a person place or thing which generally takes time to do ...Lust on the other hand can be activated with only one look or thought or at first sight

TxsGal3333's photo
Thu 10/07/10 05:46 PM
Some will say it can't happen and then some will say it can happen...

I'm one of those that say it can... the first time I met my ex I knew when our eyes made contact this was the one... We only dated for like 3 months before we got married and it lasted 11 years. So yeah I believe in love at first site....

Things can only happen if one actually believes it can.....whoa

Ladylid2012's photo
Thu 10/07/10 05:52 PM
yes, I believe in love at first sight

buttons's photo
Thu 10/07/10 06:03 PM
Edited by buttons on Thu 10/07/10 06:03 PM
i do not believe in it. lust at first sight yes.... not love... after all sight is just sight.. with the eye.. love comes within the heart..... JMO..

Atlantis75's photo
Thu 10/07/10 06:34 PM
Some women can be immediately attractive to me, but not sexually. I know that may sound weird to some people, but I can just connect with some and pulling me like a magnet for unknown reasons..not sure if it's "love" though.

ron62449's photo
Sun 10/10/10 11:08 PM

Is their such thing as love at first site /quote]

Love at first site? Is that what you call it when you fall in love from seeing them on a dating SITE! Or did you mean SIGHT?

Ron

CatsLoveMe's photo
Sun 10/10/10 11:26 PM
S*I*G*H*T. Women love men that know how to spell.

MzSwaggittarius's photo
Mon 10/11/10 03:26 AM
perhaps Intrigue at first sight...or LUST at first sight .
I think love at first sight would be once in a lifetime (and that entails it working out to old & gray)

AmandaRJ's photo
Tue 10/12/10 05:13 PM

Some women can be immediately attractive to me, but not sexually. I know that may sound weird to some people, but I can just connect with some and pulling me like a magnet for unknown reasons..not sure if it's "love" though.


I get that with some people too. I don't think is love, just raw energy, some kind of attraction, maybe a kindred spirit, who knows... I do think it can become anything though.

davidben1's photo
Tue 10/12/10 05:41 PM
sure, many love at first sight...

but, then the test of if love shall increase or decrease, when it comes time to access who's agenda of the two be most important?

for love is to care for another?

but indeed, true love to care more for one than one careth for itself?

many would say they have true love for their children, seeing and saying their children's best interest comes first, thus being the same as another's value and concern and care being more important than one's own?

it seems if one has any misgivings, or confusion, or issue's with love, it would simply be created from not having a true defintion within oneself to know, which to know guide all the hands and words in all things?

love at first sight sure, until there be spotted what makes self realize it is NOT willing nor wanting to BEAR THE COST OR PAIN, of another's mistakes, issue's, "baggage", past experience, habit's, traits, quirks, and on and on and on, lol...

if there is real love, after the inclination at first sight, each quirk will be seen as a asset, and each past experience less than glorious of another, met with feeling that other's grief and turmoil, and each mistake of aonther, seen as the mortal plight of human existence for all, by way of no instruction manuel before planet entry, and baggage, well, seen as the less, even far less than perfect environment each was born into, without anyone remembering requesting to be catapulted by force into an environment that certainly many would not have chosen, this creating no doubt a huge handicap even from the start, many not in environments at all conducive to learning by helping other's to learn, and many having no idea how to create and advance their own intelligence creating skills, nor taught how to operate their own human brain and emotion's for the betterment of self and all...

it seems difficult not to access, that if one wishes to create love into existence with another, it must first access all and any negatives it see's itself, then ask itself the crucial question, do i love them enough to proceed, embracing all these things as real and as part of the equasion of love?

if one makes it past this point, then any other that itself is involved with, will feel a different energy, for one that actually within, access the self willingness to bear the plight and any burden of another, totally WANTING TO, well, this will add to any other's "loving energy" naturally, and two can create this thing sought after as one of the greatest commodities on planet earth, this thing called love...

knowing that love is created, after first the "inspiration" is first felt, instead of thinking one shall "find love" FROM ANOTHER, will automatically lend dramatically in creating a wonderful, awesome, best buds, realtionship with another...

this certainly more true each day, as each human scan the horizon for love, this creating the mass habit of thinking of other's as love dispenser's, no different than accessing other's as a candy machine, to dispense to self the desiref defintion of love, THIS being contrived and created from the unqiue DIFFERENT experience each aquired from it's meandering walk thru it's own UNQIUE ENVIRONMENT, taken in from ALL IT SEEN, from movies, people, music, and school, and work, and friends, and on and on and on...

lol...

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