Topic: I am 35 and have never had a relationship what is wrong with
lovethiscat's photo
Sat 11/13/10 08:14 PM
I am a nurse, I am gentle and loving and have a nice body. But I don't know how to meet nice men who want to do more than physical stuff with me.
Please help me.

I want to be loved and to love someone, but is it just never gonna happen for me?



no photo
Sat 11/13/10 08:31 PM
according to my magic eight ball...
Signs point to yes.
Yes.
Reply hazy, try again.
Without a doubt.
My sources say no.
As I see it, yes.
You may rely on it.
Concentrate and ask again.
Outlook not so good.
It is decidedly so.
Better not tell you now.
Very doubtful.
Yes - definitely.
It is certain.
Cannot predict now.
Most likely.
Ask again later.
My reply is no.
Outlook good.
Don't count on it.
i would go with the first answer, 'cause the last one s*cks

Dodo_David's photo
Sat 11/13/10 08:33 PM
lovethiscat,

My late wife was 38 when she met me. So you still have time. I met her when a member of her family set me up with a blind date with her.
If you are single and looking, then communicate that with your female friends and relatives. Maybe one of them knows a man who is single and looking, too.

Also, you could also try a match-making service if one is available to you.

If all else fails, and if you become very desperate, then you could always move to some place that has the kind of man that you are looking for. I'm available, and there are nursing jobs near me. In fact there is a hospital roughly one mile/kilometer away from my house. bigsmile

By the way, what do you look like? How am I to know that you are being honest when you say that you have a nice body? :tongue:

TheShadow's photo
Sat 11/13/10 08:41 PM
Edited by TheShadow on Sat 11/13/10 09:15 PM

I am a nurse, I am gentle and loving and have a nice body. But I don't know how to meet nice men who want to do more than physical stuff with me.
Please help me.

I want to be loved and to love someone, but is it just never gonna happen for me?





I don't know about helping you, but I and some other can give you suggestions. At this point I would take a look at myself if I was in the same situation. What type of people am I attracted to. Am I being honest with myself when i'm getting to know the person i'm attracted to. Do I see red flags and ignore them. Where I'm getting at is, it's your choice and actions that will lead up to the out come. Sometimes we know whats going to happen but do it anyways. I guess the thing is to learn how to catch thing ahead of time. It's not easy, but if done it will be worth it in the long run.

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Tue 11/16/10 05:21 AM
Hey Dear! Dont worry. Its just that you haven't met the right guy yet.
If guys are not interested in you, that doesn't mean that there is some thing wrong with you.

Just chill because there are many things in the world to look forward to.

I'm sure you will find your Mr. Right as early as possible.

Just wait and watch.

metalwing's photo
Tue 11/16/10 06:10 AM
Well you have the right idea. If what you are doing is not working, try something a little different. Change the type of guy you "think" you are attracted to because you obviously want something different.

Come play on the forums with us and get to know people.