Topic: THE PSYCHOPATH - The Mask of Sanity
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Thu 03/01/12 06:32 AM


There is evidence that the human brain can make a person do something that they can't control.
Example:Parkinsons disease,epilepsy,turrets,short tempered people,alzheimers,people who are dying of cancer when cancer hits their brains they can't control their actions.Unfortunately i have seen all of these.This to me is evidence that our brain can cause us to do things we can't control(kind of like our brains have a brain of it's own?).So there could be a disease that causes serial killers to do what they do,hell look at law abiding citizens that just get up one day and go into their place of employment and open fire.I just think they are crazy but there is something in the brain that sometimes makes our conscience go away temporarly or permanent.


If a person has an illness that leads them to commit an evil deed then they are not responsible as such. They will taken out of society and given treatment.

But lets take the seemingly accepted practice of waterboarding...what can we say about the people that carry out this practice on orders. This behaviour is inhuman and carried out by supposedly civilized people. What can we say about supposedly honorable soldiers who can shoot children without batting an eyelid????




I don't know,i can assume war must be a disease cause it's going on now and can effect people in different ways.Seems to be wanting to spread also.

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Thu 03/01/12 07:02 AM

This is very interesting..thank you for posting it.
I was reading the link you provided and this caught my eye:

One very interesting aspect of the psychopath is his "hidden life" that is sometimes not too well hidden. It seems that the psychopath has a regular need to take a "vacation into filth and degradation" the same way normal people may take a vacation to a resort where they enjoy beautiful surroundings and culture. To get a full feeling for this strange "need" of the psychopath - a need that seems to be evidence that "acting human" is very stressful to the psychopath - read more of The Mask of Sanity, chapters 25 and 26.


One of my sons is getting a divorce. While getting his discoveries together, he found a secret ( or she thought it was secret ) life his soon to be ex-wife was living, and had been living since before the marriage. Phone calls, text messages, explicit pictures she had posted on internet sites. The list goes on and on..it was sickening to realize what all she had been doing. He loved and had trusted her. Even when she was alienating him from his family and friends.




A psychopath can be Male of Female of course.

With regard to your son's situation it is very interesting that he loved and trusted her while she was alienating him from his family and friends. People act in strange ways when under the influence of "LOVE"

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Thu 03/01/12 08:34 AM


This is very interesting..thank you for posting it.
I was reading the link you provided and this caught my eye:

One very interesting aspect of the psychopath is his "hidden life" that is sometimes not too well hidden. It seems that the psychopath has a regular need to take a "vacation into filth and degradation" the same way normal people may take a vacation to a resort where they enjoy beautiful surroundings and culture. To get a full feeling for this strange "need" of the psychopath - a need that seems to be evidence that "acting human" is very stressful to the psychopath - read more of The Mask of Sanity, chapters 25 and 26.


One of my sons is getting a divorce. While getting his discoveries together, he found a secret ( or she thought it was secret ) life his soon to be ex-wife was living, and had been living since before the marriage. Phone calls, text messages, explicit pictures she had posted on internet sites. The list goes on and on..it was sickening to realize what all she had been doing. He loved and had trusted her. Even when she was alienating him from his family and friends.



She is very convincing when she wants to be..and he is away from home alot with his job. So her influence was strong. And no one wants to hear negative things about their loved ones, so I could understand it. I hurt for the pain my son has gone through...and can even feel sorry for the man she's involved with now.

A psychopath can be Male of Female of course.

With regard to your son's situation it is very interesting that he loved and trusted her while she was alienating him from his family and friends. People act in strange ways when under the influence of "LOVE"


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Thu 03/01/12 08:36 AM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Thu 03/01/12 08:36 AM

There is evidence that the human brain can make a person do something that they can't control.
Example:Parkinsons disease,epilepsy,turrets,short tempered people,alzheimers,people who are dying of cancer when cancer hits their brains they can't control their actions.Unfortunately i have seen all of these.This to me is evidence that our brain can cause us to do things we can't control(kind of like our brains have a brain of it's own?).So there could be a disease that causes serial killers to do what they do,hell look at law abiding citizens that just get up one day and go into their place of employment and open fire.I just think they are crazy but there is something in the brain that sometimes makes our conscience go away temporarly or permanent.


There was a show on television -(it was a movie)- about a man who was a serial killer and would pick up prostitutes and take them to his place and strangle them. He had just picked one up and before he could do the deed he was hit by a car.

He survived the accident but his head was injured and he forgot who he was and what he had been doing. The prostitute that he had been with became his girlfriend and they eventually fell in love and got married.

Then the police finally found him and realized he had been a killer. But now he was a changed person with no memory of the crimes.

So it could be something in the brain was altered.

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Sat 03/03/12 08:51 AM
Edited by funches on Sat 03/03/12 08:56 AM

Imagine - if you can - not having a conscience, none at all, no feelings of guilt or remorse no matter what you do, no limiting sense of concern for the well-being of strangers, friends, or even family members. Imagine no struggles with shame, not a single one in your whole life, no matter what kind of selfish, lazy, harmful, or immoral action you had taken.


you justed described a newborn

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Sat 03/03/12 03:13 PM
Last night I watched a 1951 first episode of Dragnet and the bad guy was a classic psychopath. Lee Marvin played the part. The show was all about the interview and he confession to murdering about 7 people.... for little or no reason.

The stories on Dragnet say they are based on true events. I guess psychopaths have been around for a while.

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Sat 03/03/12 04:21 PM

Last night I watched a 1951 first episode of Dragnet and the bad guy was a classic psychopath. Lee Marvin played the part. The show was all about the interview and he confession to murdering about 7 people.... for little or no reason.

The stories on Dragnet say they are based on true events. I guess psychopaths have been around for a while.


I think it's scary when you can recognize the traits of a psychopath in people you know or are associated with. I guess really, anyone could be one.

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Sat 03/03/12 06:00 PM


Last night I watched a 1951 first episode of Dragnet and the bad guy was a classic psychopath. Lee Marvin played the part. The show was all about the interview and he confession to murdering about 7 people.... for little or no reason.

The stories on Dragnet say they are based on true events. I guess psychopaths have been around for a while.


I think it's scary when you can recognize the traits of a psychopath in people you know or are associated with. I guess really, anyone could be one.



They can seem like normal people until you get to know them and listen carefully to them. They seem to be observers who look at the world of non-psychopaths with curiosity. The don't understand attachment, love, compassion etc. This character in the show didn't think anything about killing someone for $16.00.




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Sat 03/03/12 06:04 PM
Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us
by Robert Hare

Just got this on my Kindle last night.

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Sat 03/03/12 06:05 PM



Last night I watched a 1951 first episode of Dragnet and the bad guy was a classic psychopath. Lee Marvin played the part. The show was all about the interview and he confession to murdering about 7 people.... for little or no reason.

The stories on Dragnet say they are based on true events. I guess psychopaths have been around for a while.


I think it's scary when you can recognize the traits of a psychopath in people you know or are associated with. I guess really, anyone could be one.



They can seem like normal people until you get to know them and listen carefully to them. They seem to be observers who look at the world of non-psychopaths with curiosity. The don't understand attachment, love, compassion etc. This character in the show didn't think anything about killing someone for $16.00.






I know...it's almost as if they don't have the capabilities of honest feelings...life doesn't mean anything to them.

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Sat 03/03/12 10:26 PM

That is so freaking interesting. I bookmarked the page to check out the other articles.

I know an online personality from other sites that fits this description. He of course is blocked at all my social networking sites.:smile:

Because he IS a psychopath.
flowerforyou Its GOOD,,that YOU have found that out NOW,,as to be AWARE OF HIM...Folks can NEVER be to careful the ones they really don't know or have references about to know..I'm glad YOU found Mingle and hope WE GET to read MUCH MORE OF YOUR WORDS HERE,,Thanks for sharing,waving :wink:

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Sun 03/04/12 04:46 AM

Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us
by Robert Hare

Just got this on my Kindle last night.


Another good one from him is ......This Charming Psychopath
How to spot social predators before they attack.


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Sun 03/04/12 06:50 AM


Imagine - if you can - not having a conscience, none at all, no feelings of guilt or remorse no matter what you do, no limiting sense of concern for the well-being of strangers, friends, or even family members. Imagine no struggles with shame, not a single one in your whole life, no matter what kind of selfish, lazy, harmful, or immoral action you had taken.


you just described a newborn


babies start off as little sociopaths with the sole purpose of manipulating the mother to full fill it's need and depending on the parents the child can evolve these tendercies with emotions or direction

but everyone harbors and rely on sociopathic and psychopathic tendercies in order to live.....when you eat food do one moan over the animals and plants or in some cases the people that were forced to give up their life so that you can feast ...or do you push those feeling aside or do you even care enough to think about it as hunger reigns

only the Shadow knows what lies in the hearts and minds of Men

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Sun 03/04/12 07:19 AM



Oh this is a fascinating subject to me! How the criminal mind works. Psychopaths. Sociopaths. I find it extremely interesting.


This excerpt I find very interesting.....

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The psychopath is one of the most fascinating and distressing problems of human experience. For the most part, a psychopath never remains attached to anyone or anything. They live a "predatory" lifestyle. They feel little or no regret, and little or no remorse - except when they are caught. They need relationships, but see people as obstacles to overcome and be eliminated. If not, they see people in terms of how they can be used. They use people for stimulation, to build their self-esteem and they invariably value people in terms of their material value (money, property, etc..).


That sounds more like a sociopath to me.


prolly by definition I'd agree, but I have long thought that if someone is one they are also the other....

I can't imagine how someone with a psychopathology could be socially healthy - or how their crimes could not also affect a social mileu

I often wonder when we hear some of the men on these sites who are obvious users apparently unaware that sex involves attachment....if they are close to or in a pathology - or in fact writing from the clinklaugh

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Sun 03/04/12 07:21 AM


Without Conscience: The Disturbing World of the Psychopaths Among Us
by Robert Hare

Just got this on my Kindle last night.


Another good one from him is ......This Charming Psychopath
How to spot social predators before they attack.




Oh cool...thanks!

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Sun 03/04/12 07:40 AM
Edited by wux on Sun 03/04/12 07:45 AM


Here is a list of ways to identify a sociopath. This list is from "Profile of a Sociopath." Is is a pretty good list of sociopathic indicators.
2,3,4 6 Glibness/superficial charm
2, 3, 4, 6 Manipulative and conning
1, 2, 3, 4 Grandiose sense of self
Pathological lying
6 Lack of remorse, shame or guilt
Shallow emotions
5 Incapacity for love
Need for stimulation -- all humanity
4, 5 Callousness/lack of empathy
1, 2, 3, 4, 6 Poor behavioral controls/impulsive nature
(This is an enigmatic problem in abnormal psychology, better to stay away from dealing with it, as it is really controversial; people react to this unpredictably, and therefore causation is either not true, or governed by factors we don't know about: Early behavior problems/juvenile delinquency
1, 2, 3, 4 Irresponsibility/unreliability
2, 3, 6, possibly 4 (not sure) Promiscuous sexual behavior/infidelity
1, 2, 3, 4, 6 Lack of realistic life plan/parasitic lifestyle
6 Criminal or entrepreneurial versatility (6 only because torture is a crime)
2, 3, 4, 6 and sometimes but not always in case of 1 as well Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them
1, Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them
Authoritarian
1 Secretive
1, 5 Paranoid
2, 3, 4, 6 Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their (tyrannical) behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired
2, 3, 4, 6 Conventional appearance - well, you can't call all strangers on the street who look normal "psychopaths"
1, 5 Incapable of real human attachment to another
Unable to feel remorse or guilt
1, 2, 3, 4, 6 Narcissism, grandiosity (self-importance not based on achievements)

The rest, below, are typical characteristics of sadistic personality disorder, which is different from psychopaths or sociopaths (name in DSM: antisocial personality disorder)
6 Goal of enslavement of their victim(s)
6 Exercises despotic control over every aspect of the victim's life
(This is ********: Has an emotional need to justify their crimes and therefore needs their victim's affirmation (respect, gratitude and love))
6 Ultimate goal is the creation of a willing victim
May state readily that their goal is to rule the world


If it's from the DSM, it should say which traits must be present, if any that must be present, and how many of the leftover traits must be present, if any.

Because as the list stands, it includes items from paranoid schizophrenia, sadistic personality disorder, any personality disorder, narcissism, Aspergers, just to name a few.

In order to not confuse one disease with another, despite overlapping sets of identical traits, the diagnosing person must be given guidelines as to what must be present and what may be present in what amounts.

I have numbered some of the traits in the above list, with the number identifyers such as this:

1 paranoid schizophrenia,
2 borderline personality disorder,
3 any personality disorder,
4 narcissism,
5 Aspergers,
6 sadistic (controlling) personality disorder

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Sun 03/04/12 07:55 AM

There was a show on television -(it was a movie)- about a man who was a serial killer and would pick up prostitutes and take them to his place and strangle them. He had just picked one up and before he could do the deed he was hit by a car.

He survived the accident but his head was injured and he forgot who he was and what he had been doing. The prostitute that he had been with became his girlfriend and they eventually fell in love and got married.

Then the police finally found him and realized he had been a killer. But now he was a changed person with no memory of the crimes.

So it could be something in the brain was altered.


I agree, Jeanniebean. Scientists and researchers should watch more fiction movies and glean insights into human behaviour that the movies suggests.

In fact, the Russian Bolshevik Revolution was started because someone had taken a joke for real, and the meteorite killed most of the dynosaurs because of a movie in 1952, which was the first to shoot the actual event and play it in movie houses.

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Sun 03/04/12 09:03 AM
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/03/02/psychology-book_n_1315990.html#s747885&title=Inhumane_or_simply

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Sun 03/04/12 01:08 PM


There was a show on television -(it was a movie)- about a man who was a serial killer and would pick up prostitutes and take them to his place and strangle them. He had just picked one up and before he could do the deed he was hit by a car.

He survived the accident but his head was injured and he forgot who he was and what he had been doing. The prostitute that he had been with became his girlfriend and they eventually fell in love and got married.

Then the police finally found him and realized he had been a killer. But now he was a changed person with no memory of the crimes.

So it could be something in the brain was altered.


I agree, Jeanniebean. Scientists and researchers should watch more fiction movies and glean insights into human behaviour that the movies suggests.

In fact, the Russian Bolshevik Revolution was started because someone had taken a joke for real, and the meteorite killed most of the dynosaurs because of a movie in 1952, which was the first to shoot the actual event and play it in movie houses.



Movies are usually inspired by real events... only the names have changed and a little sex is thrown in for fun to make it interesting.





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Sun 03/04/12 04:39 PM
All I ever know is that they walk among us. Could be ANYone.