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Topic: Why ?
pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Mon 08/13/12 02:18 AM
Just had a conversation with a 21 yr old on another sight who was trying to convince me that I wanted to use him as my "boy toy" until I found the LTR I'm looking for. In my eyes he's just a kid and we have nothing in common. This happens at least once a week. its flattering but I'm looking for more than a FWB. but they aren't.

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 08/13/12 02:42 AM
Why? Because 80% of men on dating sites are only after one thing. What they fail to reallise is us women have to become super heroes to deflect their advances and it is a deterant to even want to remain on dating sites. Be strong sweetie.

pennyg281 Joined Thu 11/08/07 Posts: 4348	Mon 08/13/12 03:07 AM
Why? Because 80% of men on dating sites are only after one thing. What they fail to reallise is us women have to become super heroes to deflect their advances and it is a deterant to even want to remain on dating sites. Be strong sweetie. So True :)

bongobill25 Joined Wed 09/14/11 Posts: 1	Mon 08/13/12 03:48 AM
i bet you could teach me a thing or two

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Mon 08/13/12 04:10 AM
I was just wanting a bit of fun is all :(. Kinda difficult when you're horny and your lover is away for a few days on holiday. I won't do it again. I'm sorry ;) lol

rajurajan Joined Fri 02/24/12 Posts: 34	Mon 08/13/12 05:18 AM
U like that age boy?

Countryboy1237 Joined Fri 08/10/12 Posts: 2	Mon 08/13/12 05:36 AM
Not all just want that one thing. And thats what messed up all this for us guys are are truly looking for someone special. The women dont believe what we say from deep inside ty

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 08/13/12 05:41 AM
Not all just want that one thing. And thats what messed up all this for us guys are are truly looking for someone special. The women dont believe what we say from deep inside ty I know. That is why I said 80% :-)

Countryboy1237 Joined Fri 08/10/12 Posts: 2	Mon 08/13/12 05:53 AM
True it just makes guys like me look like **** because i rlly dont talk much intill i get to know someone

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Mon 08/13/12 05:57 AM
True it just makes guys like me look like **** because i rlly dont talk much intill i get to know someone That is refreshing! Just be yourself. Good luck :-)

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 08/13/12 08:58 AM
People are people.. Although most young men are running on the same track, there are a few out there who deserve the benefit of the doubt.

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Mon 08/13/12 10:59 AM
Just had a conversation with a 21 yr old on another sight who was trying to convince me that I wanted to use him as my "boy toy" until I found the LTR I'm looking for. In my eyes he's just a kid and we have nothing in common. This happens at least once a week. its flattering but I'm looking for more than a FWB. but they aren't. A lot of kids get excited when they come across mature women, though it's usually the wrong kind of excitement for the wrong reasons.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 08/13/12 12:30 PM
Why? Because 80% of men on dating sites are only after one thing. What they fail to reallise is us women have to become super heroes to deflect their advances and it is a deterant to even want to remain on dating sites. Be strong sweetie. What more is there to say. You nailed it.

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