A lot of girls nowadays seem to like guys that are agressive and treat them like crap.
Dated a few women from this site and they seem to want that aggressive creep type.

Are there any normal women out there that still likes the fun loving nice guys?!

a nice guy!

Funny I was thinking the same thing wondering where are the nice guys. I suppose some of us become jaded by the jerks of the world and when you do meet a nice guy, it seems too good to be true. But to answer your question, as for nice normal girls seeking nice fun loving guys, speaking on my own behalf, yes we do exist.

Gosh Is it so hard for you to act like a jerk. If thats what it takes.

Assuming there is a "Normal" woman, eh, hey? Yeah?

Hah, I'm comedy gold.

Just dress like a homelessman girls like homeless looking type men that go around like there poor and on crack

Nice,fun, honest guy is preferred over a crappy, creepy player any day!

its hard being a jerk if you are a nice person and once you become one women start to treat u with respect and care

Sometimes it depends on the type of women you are going after. Maybe it's time to change up your standards.

it was also a vice versa. .for those nice girl. .it was really hard to find those guy who will truely love her forever. .

Pick a ugly one.....they like fun loving nice guys....

bern1987, I have difficulty believing that you would have trouble finding a nice guy to date.

By the way,


to Mingle2.

yes. .it was really hard for me. .and i really dont know why? hope i can find someone here. .

Some women do want the proverbial "nice guy" but they also want the bad boy too. I believe it's all about finding a balance between the two. But it's just asking too much to most men anymore.

Nice guys finish last ... :/

Oh for f*** sake...

You finish where you place yourself, "Nice guys" finish last as often as a "a**hole" finishes first.

It's a patsy, a flag-throwing, "Don't blame me" pushover. It is the one line that can relinquish all responsibility and place it squarely into other people's hands.

I am a man who believes that a lot of us men forgot what manly really means. As far as the nice guy title. You don't want it. Women don't want nice guys either. They want a man who is gentle when he is supposed to be and aggressive when also appropriate. The kicker is knowing when to do these things. Nice guys is to say no balls, no aggression, no action. That is why they finish last. You don't move. You don't get any. Being a man should be more like being a knight. You should be truthful, ready to fight for good things to stay good and able to take notice of the smallest of details in a lady's needs. Yes, I said lady. A lot of women never become ladies. That is why they struggle finding a knight. I'm just saying.

You know, OP, being a bad guy or an azzole is not a bed of roses, either. I have been an incredible Shrek all my life, and when I turned about 46, I stopped getting laid altogether. That was nearly 13 years ago.

Whereas I know two nice guys, in my circle of friends, and they both got married recently, to totally super-gorgeous blondes with major league gazoongas.

And my best friend, a crack addict, who is in jail now, is both a nice guy as a thug. And you know what? He gets the chicks, but he can only get a woman if he pays her by the hour, and he does, too, that's why he is in jail at the moment.

But you say being a nice guy is not being so nice these days.

Well, I guess you are right. If you are a bad guy, you still don't get the chicks, but at least you get around to kick some butts (not your own), which is better than a kick in your own butt.

Me too. Not wanting some roguish wife beater.

I've noticed that when a man is really nice women step all over him. When he starts ignoring them the women's self consciousness kicks in and all of a sudden they become respectful because you took away their control over you. Lesson learned - women don't want pushovers, unless he has something they want like money. Manipulation sucks hairy eggs.