amazing! Most would secretly agree with it. You must be very forthcoming to accept it here live, ha ha

Most people dont really know what they are gonna like before they start liking. And it is that ever present mystery that keeps it alive!

Two things I've learned from b:

1- Goatees don't count
2- Don't whine to b about itching.

Well put

IMHO there are three things that interest women. You don't have to have all three, but what you lack in one area must be made up for in another.

The first is good looks.

The second is wealth (which doesn't mean he has to be rich).

The third and most important in personality.

If you were to assign each of these a value, 1 through 10 for example, you may be ale to understand it better.

Man A scores a 6 in looks, a 4 in wealth and a 7 in personality. This is a total of 17.

Man B scores a 4 in looks, a 5 in wealth, but a 9 in personality for a total of 18.

So, man B will do a little better with women than man A most of the time.

However, when it comes to lasting, long term relationships, personality is king. Looks and wealth may open the door, but personality is the foot that holds it open.

So, to do better with women a man simply needs to do whatever he can to improve himself in these areas. Improve looks by dressing better and working out. Improve your wealth by getting a better job and saving and investing. Improve your personality by widening your interests in books, music, art, films etc.

i look for a smart but very funny guy. have to have a sense of humor. also has to be able to keep me happy. doing lil stuff gets to me.

Well , very good question ... what i am searching for is all wrapped up in one word which has many effects " kindness " this one cannot be produced unless it is rooted within one person ...
Kindness is a vertue !From it comes : respect, care,understanding,love,non judgement,....

so you have been paying attention!

Build her a huge walk in closet and she'll love you long time.

Why are men posting in here at all.

cos we also have our own idea of what a woman wants in a man too.

One form of it may be the man admitting to being wrong.

I did that to a gf of mine after seeing her for like 30 years, and admitting to being wrong about something in the 28th year of our relationship. (Not exact figures.) She made a diary note of that in her diary, saying she had always wanted to hear that for me, and waiting 30 years (or however long) for it to happen was very worth it.

I also saw a tv detective show, to do with ghosts, and the woman and the man partners change sex. they talk to their partner's friends, and they hear their own answers on their answering machine, and the girl, in the boy's body, says, "well, finally I heard them say (this or that) but they said they could be wrong." And they said this was the strangest and most welcome experience while being the opposite sex for a day.

This may be one of the possibly many much sought-after male humility which is expensive coz it happens so rarely.

I think you forgot the most important element, which is that he must be able to make peace in the middle east.

can we whine about the b_ithcing? Give us some slack, everybody needs something to whine about.

And because this is a way of asserting that we have our own free will.

Better question would be why women post at all. If they did not, it would be an eloquent statement that they also have their own free will, and answer to questions only if they want to, otherwise they have the right to withhold the answer.

That wouldn't get ya very far with me ;)

You guys probably have more clothes then me! lol

I agree with that (mostly)...maturity is a GOOD thing to have too...and I can't stand liars...

That's the mystery. Let me know and I'll be that guy...lol

Bt only a woman can answer this truthfully, a man has a free will but can not answer this question. You men can dream about what we want but woman is a puzzle and only we know the answers to our mind.

And I don't really care that men post in here, I was just being silly sarcastic anyways. Stirring the pot of humor.