Theres a difference between YANKING a womans' hair and pulling it. It's an art that James Deen (the guy in the pic) has mastered.

well yes, of course there's a big difference!

the Yanking part was my idea of I joke

which she didn't find very funny I wonder why

but I'm with you on this one, the hair scene, that is.

that's why I find the scene arousing.

but your preference, like the scene, which I favor, is not going to be the same for

all woman.
so you can't say there's a right way but you can say what's right for you which you did.
woman are on all different levels, & some of them are off the charts.
same when it comes to sex & asficsiation & most are submissive & quiet.
i stop asking when i'm at my comfort level as they usually don't devolve.
woman are as different in habit as they are in their zones, one may figure
out 80-90% but communication makes it better.

genuine interest. good conversation. adult chest hair.....athletic build - even if not totally in shape (I'm not either) - clearly some level of activity. willingness to share interests and genuine desire to share & learn from each other.

those are the things that lead to "other" kinds of turn ons.....

Was just being facetious, I've actually had an ex-gf describe me just like that before so your choice of words got my attention.

You're an attractive girl and not only physically but in the bits of your personality that come across in the forums however, there are too many years between us so don't take my comments too seriously.

dirty talk

I like erotic. I like it when there are things left to the imagination. I would rather have the hint of attraction.

females

boobies turn me on

your joking inappropriately again! its MR ******* piece or**** mother******* to you, got it!

that was messed up! Wow!!! I read the whole thing and was figuring might as well get a third BC BOY

in there, but the thread got pulled. yes he said it was all good, he was busy on private mail anyways, eh eh.. hilarious

well have to keep sweetestgirl away before we do battle BC has a civil war

ok so your like me in the sence that we like to joke flirt with some young ones at an opropriate time

but would never seek one out, BUT what if its the other way around, and there coming your way.

does that change everything for you or depends or its not where your "at" right now.

answer or smile its all good for me I'm in, but would never be the aggressor,not

knowing anything about them (age preference)ect.
peace》《 out
pony,

Dirty talk.

Seriously, to me the little "just because I tbought of you" gesture is the hottest ticket in town!

It's got everything...mystery, intrigue, romance, and ALWAYS leads to a happy ending!

Healthy Hygiene turn me on.

For myself its a experienced down to earth woman who has dealt with real world problems and who enjoys the small things in life.

No, you're right, we are alike in that manner, I will flirt with a girl I consider too young for me in a public forum like this or amongst friends, but it ends there. If she's too young for me, she's too young for me and that is experience talking.

I dated a 21 year-old earlier this year and that wasn't planned, it just happened, common ground I guess, we had a mutual friend, we're both German born and both living on the island. We went out clubbing a lot, made me realize that 10 years can really make a guy feel old especially when being with a girl 12 years younger makes you feel noticeably younger.

Ultimately, there was a big difference in maturity and in our priorities and even though she's a sweet girl, it didn't last long, lesson learned. There is a reason for having cut-off limits and at this stage, I don't see myself with a girl more than 10 years younger... where even that may be pushing it a bit, but of course it depends on the girl.

Then, I am quite picky so it takes a lot for me to actually pursue a girl even if she's pursuing me and the majority of the girls on the island where I am now are not really attractive to me unlike the girls in Van city, so I'm here since I probably won't be moving back to BC for at least another two years or so.

A woman that knows what she wants and is not afraid to ask for it. Sometimes men (well me at least) are thick headed. We look for the pretty things. Sometimes pretty things are shallow things. When right there in front of us is all that we could ask for and yet we can not see.

I'll take your advice and wont take you seriously but I will say this: Being 33 doesn't make you mature as being 21 doesn't make you immature. It always depends on the individual. Also, it's a little silly to let one bad experience create a stigma for 21 year olds. That's generalizing. If the shoe was on the other foot, I'd have learned my lesson and cut my interest in older guys a long time ago, because I've got more then one bad experience with older guys, to talk about but y'know what? It's dirt off my shoulder. I never let one or 50 bad apples spoil the bunch. And I always give everyone a chance. No matter how many battles I've endured. Or how foolish it may seem. I always, foolishly, have hope. And if I can have hope, after the bull **** past I try to burry? Anyone could too.

So thanks for lumping me in the same category of mindless 21 year olds. But that's easy to do when you know nothing about someone.

Hello trishtrini, you naughty girl you... I'm on that little island a about 200 mi north east of yours... Welcome to Mingle2 if I haven't already done this.

...dirty talk is available upon request.

Oi, I said don't take my comment too seriously, not don't take me seriously... com'on.

A few points:

1. I haven't lumped you into the category of all 21 year olds, I've just said that I think you're too young for me, that is in no way intended as a stab at your maturity or intellect. Everyone's got their reasons and opinions and they are entitled to them.

2. I don't disagree with you that being 33 doesn't make you mature just as being 21 doesn't make you immature but as you've pointed out I don't know much or anything really about you.

3. While I admire your courage in the 'giving everyone a chance department', you'll appreciate that it's 'your' courage defined by 'your' experiences so if I choose a different path, based on my own experiences... well it's my decision/choice isn't it... just like the results of that decision whether they include missing out on an opportunity or not.

So with that said... chill woman.