I do understand a lot of people both male and female play the match games on date sites for fake money, points or for popularity, I know what I see, people on date sites are saying they want love and companionship and a life partner. But then you find they just need what they need for the time they need it. I can tell you I have no baggage and I have everything I need but that one I can share my life with. To be honest I would rather be alone then be with some one for anything else other then for love and our life's walk. I can remember when I was younger and people courted and focused on one potential partner at a time. Now you can chat with as many as you can juggle. I am not a circus clown though it might be fun as a job, but I am not. I am not a mind reader but I am a great listener. I am not a rich man but my bills are paid and I enjoy my life. I don't have an Escalade or a porch 911, but I could if I wanted the payments... lol, not me. I am here so that hopefully the woman God has for me will have a better chance of us connecting so we both can stop searching and start living our dream of love and companionship. I don't need just anyone, I want her.

Totally get what you're getting at.
I also rather be alone than with someone who isn't really the right one. Sometimes ppl have said I was too picky, but I don't think you're being picky when you don't want to settle for second best.

Read in your profile you like to go to coffee shops. Guess that has a totally different meaning over there, lol
(Over here a coffee shop is where you go to buy hash or grass.)

Anyway, good luck

I agree with CrystalFairy. I'm not settling either but I don't want the material things people tend to be focused on and that's a little difficult to find on this site. I know God has a soulmate out there for me also, but he would have to be someone who I can connect deeply in mind, heart, and soul as well as there being the chemistry between us, which I believe is necessary also. There is no doubt in my mind and heart that he will arrive eventually. Sometimes it may even be when we least expect it! So I dream on.

Like minds and like hearts attract like..