Topic: at night how to stay long on sex..???
garv's photo
Sat 11/16/13 10:01 PM
tell me..at night how to stay long on sex..???

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Sat 11/16/13 10:41 PM
Do you time it? I don't see why it matters how long it last's for.

larsson71's photo
Sat 11/16/13 11:07 PM
An hour at gas mark 5, or until it's well done! laugh laugh laugh

garv's photo
Sat 11/16/13 11:09 PM
it just for info ..n will help to satisfaction in night

zarazawaw's photo
Sun 11/17/13 12:46 AM
Use your hands & tongue

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Sun 11/17/13 01:34 AM
Just keep ur mind out of world ,keep patiance wity 100% belief , enjoy the way n forget about your destiny :wink:

TawtStrat's photo
Sun 11/17/13 07:51 AM
A yoga teacher once told me that I'm in tune with my body and I honestly don't know if it's something that can be taught.

Basically though, there is a technique that makes it possible for a man to last as long as he likes when having sex.

Now, it varies from woman to woman how much she can take in a single session and you have to bear in mind that it's not simply a matter of energy or stamina for them because you can think of the vagina like it's a piece of rubber and it will get painful for her if you give it too much of a pounding.

For example, I had a girlfriend that could also go for hours and she had multiple orgasms but I've known other women that got tired within an hour and wanted to stop.

I do think that it matters how long it takes but some people may disagree and be into quickies or something. I was recently discussing this with some guys on another forum and when I was talking about giving women orgasms a guy said to me that his wife says that all men think that way. Well, perhaps he had a point and there's just something about me that makes me want to make sure that I satisfy a woman in bed, so being someone that tries to be a sensitive, caring sort of guy that actually listens to women I just let them tell me when they've had enough.

 Maria195's photo
Sun 11/17/13 08:54 AM

A yoga teacher once told me that I'm in tune with my body and I honestly don't know if it's something that can be taught.

Basically though, there is a technique that makes it possible for a man to last as long as he likes when having sex.

Now, it varies from woman to woman how much she can take in a single session and you have to bear in mind that it's not simply a matter of energy or stamina for them because you can think of the vagina like it's a piece of rubber and it will get painful for her if you give it too much of a pounding.

For example, I had a girlfriend that could also go for hours and she had multiple orgasms but I've known other women that got tired within an hour and wanted to stop.

I do think that it matters how long it takes but some people may disagree and be into quickies or something. I was recently discussing this with some guys on another forum and when I was talking about giving women orgasms a guy said to me that his wife says that all men think that way. Well, perhaps he had a point and there's just something about me that makes me want to make sure that I satisfy a woman in bed, so being someone that tries to be a sensitive, caring sort of guy that actually listens to women I just let them tell me when they've had enough.


You made good points (sense) here TawtStrat and I applaud you for. Good job on thinking of your partner! drinker drinker

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Sun 11/17/13 09:10 AM
helo

Tsean22's photo
Tue 11/19/13 02:15 AM
Hey garv__... To be honest if you just get lost in what she's giving you, and im talkin "XB360" lost. It really wouldn't matter how long it last. Unless, you've got the problem but I bet you don't. And hey! You could always drink before hand.

Suntita2's photo
Tue 11/19/13 02:40 AM
A friend once told me that a wise man should always aim to give 60% of the pleasure during 'relations' & the woman will respond with 100% instead of 40%.Twat,you are spot on.just aim to please the woman.quality over quantity.plus as you say,women have different capacities,so it's best to let her say when she is done.Most men I have had the misfortune to be with,hurried to please themselves the best way they could.Never mind that it might leave me unsatiated,hurt or simply angry at the 'poor' performance.Now older & wiser,I know when to bear bad performance gently and how to gently guide the other to a better way to handle me.

Tsean22's photo
Tue 11/19/13 03:16 AM
I might just be young in comparing things in relevance to the subject but sex with me is like standing in the shower after... cleaning the whole yard. Or that first look at that new recipe you just took out the oven. It might get hard, you might get frustrated, hell you might stop what your doing just to start over. You could take your slow time with every step in the process and it could take for ever to get finished but in the end. It'll SCREAM satisfaction.

lionsbrew's photo
Tue 11/19/13 06:06 AM
Edited by lionsbrew on Tue 11/19/13 06:07 AM
You wanna last longer? Find a book on Tantric love making and read it. There will likely be exercises in the book on how to prolong or hold off on ejaculation. But the idea of lasting longer comes from wanting to please your partner and the best way to do that is to ask questions about what she likes this can also be really exciting and sexy if done right. Communication in any relationship about any topic is what helps make it work in the long run. It also shows you care about her through your discussions. Trying different things to see what she responds to is also good. You won't need to last longer if you bring her to climax sooner by doing the things that get her going. Good luck.drinker